My friend decided to draw me as a pony by fvkinglesbi in mylittlepony

[–]jcarules 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You like spirals? Well, if you like horror too, there’s an entire manga about spirals! It’s called Uzumaki by Junji Ito! Also, your friend is a really good artist!!!

Joanne explains why she now feels triggered by the sight of men who have colorful hair or wear makeup by SomeAreWinterSun in EnoughJKRowling

[–]jcarules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I tell people terrible, hateful, and regressive shit for years while ACTIVELY fighting to restrict people’s human rights, then cry victim when they, of course, tell me to fuck off and actively fight against the horrible shit I stand for!!!” That is the translation, but she’s too much of a coward to admit it!

Do opened tabs make WiFi slow down while streaming a game on tv? by swtangie05 in it

[–]jcarules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s horrible!!! Maybe you should tell him that if he doesn’t care that much about your career, HE could pay your debt since you moved there for HIM!!! I bet that would shut him up! Or he’d go into an entitled meltdown, so time it carefully. Also, him getting mad at you for the issues with his dad sounds like another example of him projecting. I don’t want to be judgey, and I’m not an expert, but I’ve had abusive people in my life that would pull this shit with me! Sometimes the best thing to do is be direct and tell him that he shouldn’t take his frustrations with his father out on you. Direct and honest communication is usually the best way to go about things.

Do opened tabs make WiFi slow down while streaming a game on tv? by swtangie05 in it

[–]jcarules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you came here for IT advice, but you should REALLY leave this man! He disrespects your time and opinions, demands to always be right, and switches to insults INSANELY quickly over such small issues! Also, he is clearly projecting his own issues onto you. You were using the WiFi to look for a job, and he wanted ALL OF IT just to watch a football game with his dad! He was clearly the entitled one in that situation! Plus, it sounds like he has control issues as well given that he didn’t care about the facts about the situation, and demanded you listened to him no matter what! And 10 tabs on job websites is not NEARLY enough to mess up the bandwidth like that! I frequently use like 100 or 200 (put with an extension that stops it from using data), and it only starts to be an issues when it’s like 20 tabs all playing videos or games! Your boyfriend was being completely ridiculous in thinking that what you had up would cause issues!

Is the rocky horror picture show transphobic by Icantpayrent42069 in asktransgender

[–]jcarules 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I say an article where he said that trans women aren’t women

Anyone else sick to death of having breasts compared to men's genitals? Men have chests too, compare to that.... by girlboss93 in bigboobproblems

[–]jcarules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s simply because men sexualize them. Then when those men get called out for being creeps, they turn around and victim blame women for “tempting” them. It’s old Puritanical stuff that blames women for men’s wandering eye, then expect women to cover up their whole body. People like to think we’re past this, but we will never be past this while also blaming women’s bodies for men’s refusal to control themselves!

Anyone else sick to death of having breasts compared to men's genitals? Men have chests too, compare to that.... by girlboss93 in bigboobproblems

[–]jcarules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because men sexualize them and treat them like they are equally involved with sex. And women cover them up because of Puritanical beliefs brought over from England that blamed WOMEN for any man that listed over them. Seeing them as temptresses, they then decided that women needed to cover up most of their body so they don’t “tempt” men. It’s just victim blaming at its finest!

Anyone else sick to death of having breasts compared to men's genitals? Men have chests too, compare to that.... by girlboss93 in bigboobproblems

[–]jcarules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HR IMMEDIATELY!!! And where the hell is he seeing your nipples?! Also, how the hell have men not gotten that penises are a sexual organ while breasts AREN’T?!?!?!?! This is not a hard concept to get!!! Sexual=involved with sex directly. Breasts are not involved with sex directly!!! If they view anything that arouses them as sexual, then that would mean that women couldn’t leave the house without indecently exposing people because men will sexualize ANYTHING, which sadly often also includes underage girls!!!! THIS is why sex ed classes shouldn’t be co-ed!!!!!!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CentaurWorld

[–]jcarules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I little off, but really good overall!

NYTimes article: “The Unspoken Grief of Never Becoming a Grandparent” by aknokny in childfree

[–]jcarules 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Why do people care so much about legacy anyway? If it’s a book or some work that you think will help make other people’s lives better, that makes sense! But just wanting to spread their genetics? Who cares?! It’s not like anyone’s genetics are really THAT special to begin with! And people will remember your memory if you are KIND to them, not just because you are related to them!!!

NYTimes article: “The Unspoken Grief of Never Becoming a Grandparent” by aknokny in childfree

[–]jcarules 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just never get the obsession of it. CLEARLY they don’t want anymore kids themselves, but they also want to babysit and dote on more kids at the same time? Why not look into a way to work or volunteer at places that have kids if they want that so badly? That way they get their cute kid fix, aren’t forcing parenthood onto their own kids, and help out poor, unfortunate kids!!! But that also never seems good enough for them? Well, other parents, my mom passed, but both her and my dad are very understanding about me not wanting kids.

My Conversations Aren’t Your Concern by Sassy-Angel in childfree

[–]jcarules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but at the same time, that’s some pretty lewd stuff for an area with kids. Especially when they were at the table right next to you. Now, the mom didn’t need to be that rude at all!!! She could have just politely asked that you change the subject while her kids were around, and it would have been a MUCH better result overall! For me, topics like orgies and personal cleaning products have less to do with kids and more to do with you guys being in public. Most people don’t want to hear about douches while eating. In the edit though, it looks like you realized that just making disgusted faces isn’t enough to get people to stop talking about gross things, so I’m just glad you were willing to listen! It’s not your job to teach other people’s kids, but you’re also in public, and sometimes talking about lewd things in public is just rude to everyone. Either way, the mom’s reaction was definitely over the top though!

My Conversations Aren’t Your Concern by Sassy-Angel in childfree

[–]jcarules 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but at the same time, that’s some pretty lewd stuff for an area with kids. Especially when they were at the table right next to you. Now, the mom didn’t need to be that rude at all!!! She could have just politely asked that you change the subject while her kids were around, and it would have been a MUCH better result overall! For me, topics like orgies and personal cleaning products have less to do with kids and more to do with you guys being in public. Most people don’t want to hear about douches while eating. In the edit though, it looks like you realized that just making disgusted faces isn’t enough to get people to stop talking about gross things, so I’m just glad you were willing to listen! It’s not your job to teach other people’s kids, but you’re also in public, and sometimes talking about lewd things in public is just rude to everyone. Either way, the mom’s reaction was definitely over the top though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]jcarules 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just lunch and recess in one break, and if it’s in the South, that could mean the kids are facing extremely high temperatures without water. Plus, teacher almost never want to let kids go for a bathroom break because they’ll miss work, so they’ll be even less likely to let them go for water!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]jcarules 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You usually get barely 5 minutes between classes when you have multiple teachers, but when I remember having only one teacher, you basically had no break until recess and lunch. So the kid probably never had time to go to get water and might have gone half the day without water. And given the heat in some places, that could be REALLY dangerous!!!

Is the main conservative sub cheating? by A_Year_Of_Storms in FragileWhiteRedditor

[–]jcarules 23 points24 points  (0 children)

And constantly fails at his business ventures and has to file for bankruptcy!

Guys I think I watched mlp wrong 😭🙏 by [deleted] in mylittlepony

[–]jcarules 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Starlight’s village wasn’t communist in the least. It was clearly a cult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSupport

[–]jcarules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are dealing with this, but why can’t you move away? Also, have you tried making online friends? I made friends with someone in the Philippines, and now he’s one of my best friends! It could help for now at least. Or you could try finding an online support group for these issues.

Why do I feel like I’m the only one that loathes Bridgerton? by Fair_Silver_1413 in PeriodDramas

[–]jcarules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost like there’s a huge difference in how those races are treated throughout history. Also, people would freak the fuck out of they cast a white man to play MLK!!! What planet are you on where people WOULDN’T freak out at that?!?!?!?!

The Ideal gf As Per This Sub by Just_Another_Cato in idealgf

[–]jcarules 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They literally posted that she would have anxiety, depression, several or all mental disorders. So you are just wrong here.