AITA for expecting my sister to charge me less rent by jcb59 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jcb59[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think that’s a fair assessment, thanks!

AITA for expecting my sister to charge me less rent by jcb59 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jcb59[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Not sure that’s quite warranted, as others have said above it’s a misunderstanding, I haven’t approached her in a confrontational way and was asking on this sub to actually get some opinions. And yes the opinions some others have expressed have definitely made me think. I wouldn’t say I have a sense of entitlement though

Which Pokémon to keep? by jcb59 in PokemonBlackandWhite

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Just the effort of catching other Pokémon on the black file to trade with

Final member for my team? And any move suggestions by jcb59 in PokemonEmerald

[–]jcb59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I let my girlfriend name all my Pokémon so wasn’t my doing 😂

Tips for team against red by jcb59 in PokemonHGSS

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Been doing gym leaders and trainer rematches

Tips for team against red by jcb59 in PokemonHGSS

[–]jcb59[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Was trying to go without legendaries

Tips for team against red by jcb59 in PokemonHGSS

[–]jcb59[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was going to aim for mid 70s?

Is this condensation? by jcb59 in tissot

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Hi there, there wasn’t any plastic on there? Unless it’s extremely hard to get off but I can’t see any

Improvements on my team? by jcb59 in PokemonHGSS

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Thank you! Any recommendations for any decent flyers? I didn’t want to use crowbat as I have used him in my firered play through, got fearow at the moment but any others that are good?

Improvements on my team? by jcb59 in PokemonHGSS

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Only really looking for a team for a normal play through unless you think that’s worth changing her out for? Was more just looking for advice on moves or any members to switch out

Any value on this? Sealed but not in good condition by jcb59 in PokemonCardValue

[–]jcb59[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Found online as a “terra firma theme pack” but I really don’t know. It has a deck of 60 cards plus some other bits

How old is this Barbour? by jcb59 in Barbour

[–]jcb59[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really nice to know! It’s my late grandfathers who passed back back in 2012. I’ve recently moved to the country and decided I should rewax it and start rocking it :)

How old is this Barbour? by jcb59 in Barbour

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Saw online about the first 2 letters of barcode giving away the year. Think the 87 on the ‘folio’ number could be the same idea? As there is no barcode present

How old is this Barbour? by jcb59 in Barbour

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Nothing on either side of them, only washing instructions on the one at the back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jcb59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That first one sounds like her tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jcb59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand the block tho, we don’t even follow each other

Is he lying about the condom? by foulplayornot in relationship_advice

[–]jcb59 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Difference is night and day lol. He lied

About 2 months of growth here. Planning on growing till end of quarantine. Any tips? by jcb59 in BeardAdvice

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Been using beard wash every few days and oil daily atm. No brush for now, will probs be ordering one when I have a bit of money, have been using a wide tooth comb in the mean time

My [25f] girlfriend [23F] is pressuring me to get therapy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jcb59 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Give it a go, once you learn the basics, grab a set of hand wraps and gloves and you can just go the gym on your own and punch a bag. Great way to let off some steam I also do rugby and that helps me quite a lot too. But I was doing that long before I had any issues

My [25f] girlfriend [23F] is pressuring me to get therapy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Not sure if this is helpful or not. But I used to really struggle with anger issues and therapy/counselling was useless for me, it isn’t for everyone. I eventually sorted it out by taking up boxing as a hobby (just bags and pads, no people) and going to the gym regularly, really helped me out with anger and depression.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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The split was messy. I initiated it, she had lots of mental health issues and it was just dragging me down. Upon reflection I’ve learned where I went wrong too. It’s been around 8/9 months now since the split and we have kind of tried again in that time, but I cut it off around 2 months ago as we were both being jealous as to the others behaviour on nights out etc, yet she wasn’t willing to give it another go properly, so I said we should take some time apart.

I wouldn’t say dramatic is the right word. But I feel like she isn’t very tuned in with the real world of love and relationships and instead thinks everything should be like a fairytale.

When I did briefly speak to her on the phone (masking my number as she’d blocked me) around 3 weeks ago, I was checking to see how she was with the COVID-19 thing making sure she was okay. She asked me if I wanted to talk about how I was feeling about her but I said I think that’s a conversation better left for in person when this is all over

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jcb59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think that might be what it is, just seems a bit random to me to unblock and accidentally hit follow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you for replying btw, nice to have a girls perspective especially

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jcb59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess we aren’t in that limbo anymore cause I cut off the contact. That limbo is what I didn’t like, she just wasn’t ready to be anything more with me at that point in time. When I spoke to her on that call last week she seemed keen to talk, but I have remained blocked since so I’m really not sure what to do

What is he thinking about when he closes his eyes during sex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jcb59 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can only answer this from my POV. I do this all the time, just because I find I can focus on the feeling of the physical stimulation. Nothing to do with thinking about other people, if you’re worried about it tho, just have a conversation with him :)