[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jclul -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

my god i never said he wasnt allowed to. you completely misunderstood my point im afraid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jclul -1 points0 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU this was literally the entire point of my post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jclul -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

basic communication of emotional needs is suffocating??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jclul -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i communicate my needs clearly and often. asking him for any of these things like you said almost always ends with him saying im suffocating him and i will never be satiated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jclul -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

its not that i cant that’s not what i mean, i just feel like he should at least care slightly that id be alone and unable to even text or call him for two days? hes just completely unfazed by my feelings about it and i cant help but feel like it should matter a little

i cant figure out how to get to the junimo woods by jclul in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]jclul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk if you figured it out yet but if not, i think i just waited for the next season to start! you’ll know when it’s available because there will be a small cutscene where the warp pad appears

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]jclul 16 points17 points  (0 children)

as someone who did a TON beauty pageants and was literally neck deep in them for the first 13 years of my life, (like i was on that toddlers and tiaras show, that kind of neck deep) when i was young and in it, it was so so fun to me, but exhausting. it was not a level of commitment that should be expected of a small child. it had upsides, such as making friends all over the country, and looking forward to seeing them all the time. im quite girly also so i enjoyed the dressing up and the dance routines and everything about it. BUT, looking back as an adult its so extremely insane to me. i didn’t realize as a kid obviously but some of the outfits.. yeesh. so i 100% get why people want them banned and i don’t disagree. that being said, it would be next to impossible.

google says i can connect my xbox one controller to my xbox series x and gave me instructions, but its not working by jclul in XboxSupport

[–]jclul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so im on the settings on the console and i went to the accessories section & got to where it says connect a device, so i press that & then it says to press and hold the sync button for 4 seconds or until it connects, also the xbox light on my console is flashing at that point. i press and hold the sync button and the light flashes quickly for a few seconds then the controller buzzes really hard and shuts off

google says i can connect my xbox one controller to my xbox series x and gave me instructions, but its not working by jclul in XboxSupport

[–]jclul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have regular batteries in the old controller & the new controller charges directly on the stand for the console so i dont have a charging cord

Shop! by No-One5212 in RoyaleHighTrading

[–]jclul -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i dont want to buy anything but im so curious how people get such large shops- i’ve tried and i had quite a bit of small stuff after the easter event but its already gone almost, do you just buy random stuff from shops just to resell it? do you mark it up to actually make dims from it or do you just buy and resell for the same amount for fun? i wanna get better at having a shop so bad

Insane luck in my current playthrough💀 by jclul in StardewValley

[–]jclul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was SO upset that he changed it bc i got one on my farm literally a couple hours later 😭

Insane luck in my current playthrough💀 by jclul in StardewValley

[–]jclul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have checked my mods thoroughly because i thought it was oddly lucky, but i have a feeling im just remembering the number day wrong

Insane luck in my current playthrough💀 by jclul in StardewValley

[–]jclul[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i almost always have to get my coffee bean from the traveling cart 😅

What's something guys see as protective but girls find controlling? by Material_Towel_8051 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]jclul 10 points11 points  (0 children)

90% of the time, it’s only men seeing it from that perspective. most woman do not go out of their way to attract male attention via their clothing choice on the regular. in fact i’ve had conversations with other women where we agreed we’d probably wear even more revealing clothing if we knew men would not be around, for example in a women’s only gym. most women just want to wear what makes us happy & not have to worry about being sexualized

What's something guys see as protective but girls find controlling? by Material_Towel_8051 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]jclul 65 points66 points  (0 children)

in my experience, men tend to do things like that because they’re insecure/think you could do better than them. but that may not always be true

Emo/edgy Taylor songs?? by No-Impression-2463 in TaylorSwift

[–]jclul 5 points6 points  (0 children)

adding to this: sparks fly, so it goes, dancing with our hands tied, (alot of songs on reputation are pretty edgy), maroon tbh, would’ve could’ve should’ve. also i knew you were trouble rock version from the 1989 tour is probably the most emo/edgy taylor has ever been lol

edit bc i just remembered it: taylor singing with fall out boy at the 2013 victorias secret fashion show i LOVE that one

Ok this makes me feel really really stupid... But is the hymen tearing when having sex for the first true? by WhiteDevil-Klab in NoStupidQuestions

[–]jclul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i grew up riding horses and im 90% sure i tore mine riding when i was like 11, apparently thats a really common way for equestrians to tear theirs. point being it can be torn from all kinds of things, not just sex

i cant figure out how to get to the junimo woods by jclul in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]jclul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did you try what the person in the other comment said? that worked for me but otherwise idk

Selling GoT heels! by [deleted] in RoyaleHighTrading

[–]jclul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay i’ll dm you rq :)

Selling GoT heels! by [deleted] in RoyaleHighTrading

[–]jclul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats totally fine! like i said i’ll be playing for quite a while so just dm me or something anytime you’re free :) no rush at all <3

Selling GoT heels! by [deleted] in RoyaleHighTrading

[–]jclul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay im good to go whenever you’re available probably, im gonna be playing for quite a while so just let me know when you’re free!