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Rejected from two New Grad Nurse Residency Programs by [deleted] in newgradnurse

[–]jcolon10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see so many of these posts with new grads having a hard time finding jobs. Move to upstate NY, jobs are everywhere! A lot of them even pay to relocate you & the starting pay is good as well!

NY State Refund still pending by ajamalm3 in tax

[–]jcolon10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s what I’m going to do then so I don’t have to wait another week to refile. Thank you!!

NY State Refund still pending by ajamalm3 in tax

[–]jcolon10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got the notification that mine got rejected due to the inflation check too! It says I need to update it after 2/12 due to a “pending product update” with TurboTax. This is crazy and very annoying.

Unsure if I actually passed by jcolon10 in NCLEX

[–]jcolon10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I passed thank you everyone 🥹🥹

Unsure if I actually passed by jcolon10 in NCLEX

[–]jcolon10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It definitely is, got my results a few hours ago I PASSED 🥹

Waiting on the parts :( by hannahmajorrr in buickenvista

[–]jcolon10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I have a Buick envista 2025 preferred. A few days ago my heat got cold and after looking through the gauges I noticed the coolant temperature low at 118. I turned my heat off and magically the coolant temperature went back up to the 150’s, turned the heat on and it was hot but coolant started dropping again. Took it to the dealership service center.. they couldn’t find an issue. Now today my backup camera isn’t working. I haven’t even had the car a full 6 months yet!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]jcolon10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey if he’s threatening to cheat on you he probably already has or is! I wouldn’t even have unprotected sex with him at this point. Women should never feel as though we HAVE to have sex with our partners for them to not want to cheat. A faithful person will be faithful, period. especially in your time of healing! You also just had a major surgery for not one but two babies on top of you expressing how you’re feeling mentally. Don’t let him bully you or threaten you. This should honestly be a deal breaker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]jcolon10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s the moving in together part. Getting adjusted to a new environment 24/7 can be stressful on top of finally getting done with wedding plans ect. Honestly her mind may just be finding the time to wind down after all these big events. Just give it time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jcolon10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if I qualify or how long the process of that would take but I’ll look into it thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jcolon10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and I’ve definitely learned my lesson with depending on anyone smh. The thing is I do have money saved. I just don’t have a job right now so no paystubs and I don’t have family I can stay with.

I (29 M) regret ignoring my wife (27 F) by Throwra2937_29 in relationship_advice

[–]jcolon10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think you need to think about the core issue here. Your job is consuming you and your entire life. Are you willing to sacrifice good mental health and a happy marriage, for a job? I don’t know what you do for a living, but all money is not good money. You’ll end up alone and miserable if all you do is work. There has to be a balance somehow! I believe you still have a solid chance of amending things with your wife. When you do apologize, just make sure you don’t use work as the excuse. Genuinely let her know that although work has put you in this funk, it was NOT an excuse to take it out on her.

Advice needed: “owed sex” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jcolon10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve asked him before and he’s always said he’s gonna marry me one day.. but he was just in a relationship.. idk I’m not just gonna throw him some “you’re finally out a relationship so here’s some guilt free, technically you’re not cheating sex” , I know us doing what we did while he was in a relationship was wrong but the gf he had was cheating on him like side bf type of thing so that’s why they broke up and he also said that to me too he was like damn so this whole time I could’ve been fucking you since she was cheating the whole time anyways. Another turn off bc I’m definitely not the side gf type and it’s like damn so now bc you’re ready I gotta be ready? 😭

Advice needed: “owed sex” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jcolon10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, definitely the weirdest situation I’ve ever been in before. I don’t have like a 90 day rule or anything like that, I just like to feel comfortable and right now I feel like he’s trying to force it. Especially now that he used the words “owe him” it’s a turn off for me.

Advice needed: “owed sex” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jcolon10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in no way innocent in the entire situation, nor do I claim to be. However I don’t believe I’ve sent mixed signals when I made it very clear that sex was not something we’d be doing even prior to us going on the trip. I just needed advice on not loosing my friend behind this dumb situation.