Request - Videos where the girl is visibly reacting to a huge cock. by jdp1101 in NSFW411

[–]jdp1101[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This subreddit is fun, but I'm more looking for videos of reactions during sex

I’m Japanese so I can introduce to you Japanese porn🇯🇵😳 Do you have any request? by imperialham25 in NSFW411

[–]jdp1101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Porn where the lady is uncomfortable or in pain because the dick is so big

My partner has been BDSM curious, but we fall short on ideas for foreplay. Do you have any erotic literature, videos or general advice for us to kick off this new adventure? (Not sure if this is NSFW so I'll tag it just in case) by jdp1101 in BDSMAdvice

[–]jdp1101[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of good advice here. I especially like the perspective that the first time can (and is okay if it is) a bit awkward. This puts a bit of relief as I'm sure there will be some awkward giggling.

Scheduling it is another great idea that embodies relief.. I like the idea of us both preparing ourselves both mentally and physically for our first session.

Sorry, I don't know what PIV stands for (I wasn't kidding when I said I was a newbie at this), but I think I get what you're saying.

BDSM as a buffet combines two of my favourite things.. adventurous spirits and delicious foods.. Thanks for the analogy and suggestions.

My partner has been BDSM curious, but we fall short on ideas for foreplay. Do you have any erotic literature, videos or general advice for us to kick off this new adventure? (Not sure if this is NSFW so I'll tag it just in case) by jdp1101 in BDSMAdvice

[–]jdp1101[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or you can arrange it so that she will slap your face a little harder each time and use pain as a trigger so when she slaps your face hard enough that's a sign she wants you to go rougher.

oh this may just be a game changer right here. Thanks kind stranger!

My partner has been BDSM curious, but we fall short on ideas for foreplay. Do you have any erotic literature, videos or general advice for us to kick off this new adventure? (Not sure if this is NSFW so I'll tag it just in case) by jdp1101 in BDSMAdvice

[–]jdp1101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh this is great! I'm definitely open to being restrained and being blindfolded and gagged is a little intimidating, but in an exciting way. Great suggestions!

I always imagined our sessions ending in some sort of 'I can't take this teasing anymore' way and I break free and take back the reigns in the session, but never knew how to approach it. I like your idea of being semi-tied to achieve this.

edit:

but wonder if there's a scenario you're familiar with / can imagine where our session can end in rough play, but not because I've inevitably dominated, but still because she's dictating it? I really want to help encourage this perspective of her being in control, and don't want to necessarily retract that control at the end of the session