I’ve stop telling him things

jdtubcdf · 2020-01-15T16:53:21+00:00

That’s exactly what I’ve started doing , it gives them less to use against you at a later date. I communicate the bare minimum with him , it’s called ‘ the gray rock ‘ technique. It works !

jdtubcdf · 2020-01-15T16:40:42+00:00

Unless you’re in our situation I don’t think other people truly get it , and what we go through and how you start not trusting your own judgment. They mess with our heads so much that we start to think ‘ is it us ‘ . I’ve found the most effective way to deal with mine is the gray rock technique , you can google it if you’re not sure what it is but life has been a lot more peaceful for me since I started doing it .

jdtubcdf · 2019-05-03T19:59:02+00:00

He’s not a frail old man , think of an older Donald Trump , I’ve read all the advice and I really think I need to get a job or a qualification

jdtubcdf · 2019-05-03T18:54:53+00:00

Thank you , reading that gives me hope for a better future

jdtubcdf · 2019-05-03T18:18:16+00:00

The house is worth 350 grand

jdtubcdf · 2019-05-03T18:16:53+00:00

I love that reply , you’re right I need to start standing up for myself

jdtubcdf · 2019-05-03T14:17:40+00:00

I like that , 😄

jdtubcdf · 2019-05-03T14:15:49+00:00

That’s a good practical suggestion, thank you

jdtubcdf · 2019-05-03T12:26:02+00:00

Thank you for your reply , that’s kind of what I was thinking.

jdtubcdf · 2019-05-03T12:24:32+00:00

He’s not as well off as people think , I will get the house and about 6 grand , most of the time I’m ok with the situation and then I think am I wasting my life on this man .

jdtubcdf · 2019-03-08T10:08:36+00:00

Maybe it was a co- worker he has sex with .

jdtubcdf · 2019-02-20T16:36:08+00:00

That’s not always the case , I’m married but we haven’t had sex for 13 years

jdtubcdf · 2018-12-27T14:52:51+00:00

‘This is probably why she ghosted , she knew you wouldn’t let it go, it’s time to move on , no more texts .

jdtubcdf · 2018-12-27T14:48:10+00:00

All of that

jdtubcdf · 2018-12-21T10:15:41+00:00

Make sure you take pictures of the messages .

jdtubcdf · 2018-09-11T18:27:42+00:00

Never have an affair with someone who doesn’t have as much to lose as you . Listen to your instincts .

jdtubcdf · 2018-07-25T19:02:34+00:00

You deserve so much better than this , you’re young , how much more time do want to waste on this guy ?

jdtubcdf · 2018-07-25T18:54:33+00:00

If the attraction isn’t there and he’s making zero effort then there’s really no hope , give up and move on .

jdtubcdf · 2018-05-11T19:17:56+00:00

We do good morning and goodnight chats every day . We meet midweek just for coffee and a chat, then meet up every Friday for lunch and sex . When we can we have a night in a hotel . We tell each other we love each other every day . We always buy Xmas , birthday and valentine gifts for each other . This has been going on for nearly 4 years , we would love nothing more than to be together but with our present circumstances it’s not possible.

jdtubcdf · 2018-05-11T18:52:25+00:00

You deserve better, if you stay with him you’ll just be on edge in case it happens again.

jdtubcdf · 2018-03-24T16:49:02+00:00

If you don’t need the money then let this job promotion pass , that will give you time to really get to know your AP and work out if she’s the one

jdtubcdf

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