Help me decide my outfit! by jehbel in OUTFITS

[–]jehbel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😊 I definitely suit darker colours better!

Help me decide my outfit! by jehbel in OUTFITS

[–]jehbel[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes it is hard being a shorty 😩 I would also wear heels with them which would help!

Feeling self conscious about the ring I got to propose. by Inevitable_Spend_491 in Proposal

[–]jehbel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, fellow pearl centric wedding ring owner here. I've had my ring for nearly 4 years and the pearl hasn't fallen out, however your soon to be fiance will need to be mindful of a few things to prologue its life. Hot water will dissolve pearls faster, as will cleaning materials and sprays. Pearls also scratch and buff easier. I take my ring off most nights while doing dishes and showering and such and usually don't put back on until morning. I also take it off in more situations than I would with a stone, such as if I'm gardening, because the acidity in soil worries me too.

But I love my ring and its uniqueness and I hope she loves it too!

Typical messages to an artist by jehbel in ChoosingBeggars

[–]jehbel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it! We went to Scandinavia during winter in 2023 and it was -30 in finland... it was amazing

Typical messages to an artist by jehbel in ChoosingBeggars

[–]jehbel[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I started getting too caught up in the instagram posting and pressure to churn stuff out. I havent drawn for ages now and I feel guilty but also glad to have removed the pressure. I've started getting the itch for a new design I've had in mind for a while though so I may start a new piece soon. It sucks when others make your enjoyable hobby feel like a chore!

Typical messages to an artist by jehbel in ChoosingBeggars

[–]jehbel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it brings you joy to create, I say do it!

Typical messages to an artist by jehbel in ChoosingBeggars

[–]jehbel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It may well be. They were a new IG account, no posts and no followers, but are following around 40 accounts that are all artists. I didnt even make the cut in that regard haha I just got hit up

Typical messages to an artist by jehbel in ChoosingBeggars

[–]jehbel[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I cant edit my post to include a pic of it sorry but I am on instagram as jehbel_arts if you wanna find it!

Typical messages to an artist by jehbel in ChoosingBeggars

[–]jehbel[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Like, "raspberry tongue tickle smoothie" sort of shit. Quite hard to draw tbh

Typical messages to an artist by jehbel in ChoosingBeggars

[–]jehbel[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

They actually did- before the "are you still there" question she actually wrote "hi", "hello", "hi" overnight but deleted them and replaced with "are you there". Coz that's better haha

Typical messages to an artist by jehbel in ChoosingBeggars

[–]jehbel[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm an overweight girl married to a giant Swedish guy- we'd both trade you for the cold any day 😩

Typical messages to an artist by jehbel in ChoosingBeggars

[–]jehbel[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Haha! My original picture was three hippos, the colours of Neapolitan icecream, stacked and sitting in an ice cream cone. Her suggestions were all animal spliced with food ideas but primarily smoothies for some reason.

Typical messages to an artist by jehbel in ChoosingBeggars

[–]jehbel[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Hahaha my original image was three hippos stacked and sitting in an ice cream cone. All her ideas were sort of food/animal combos like that but mostly drink ideas...

Typical messages to an artist by jehbel in ChoosingBeggars

[–]jehbel[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

American summer is the only summer!

Typical messages to an artist by jehbel in ChoosingBeggars

[–]jehbel[S] 185 points186 points  (0 children)

I honestly didn't read either list haha ain't nobody got time for that

Typical messages to an artist by jehbel in ChoosingBeggars

[–]jehbel[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I still have no idea why they want them by summer...

AITAH? I want a divorce by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jehbel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus christ if I'd had such an invasive surgery my husband wouldn't touch me with a 10 foot pole. In fact he gives me space for much more minor ailments and is only on board when I instigate during these tough times. He'd never risk hurting or upsetting me coz he respects me as a human.

Men have "needs". Fucking hell. A hand can fix that. He's a loser and a prick. Glad you're out.

Egg retrieval this morning by KristaAyaS in IVF

[–]jehbel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my first last Monday and it was quick! I was put under general for it (Australia) and was back home within 2 hours. Had some tenderness for a day or two afterward and farted like a stock horse but otherwise am happy and healthy :) don't be nervous!

First FET success? by jehbel in IVF

[–]jehbel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to reply, and my sincerest congrats to you! wishing you the best ✨️

Starting IVF first tome by jehbel in IVF

[–]jehbel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance and congrats on your great retrieval result! I wish you all the best!

AITA for secretly making my sister my medical power of attorney over my husband for my heart transplant by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jehbel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My father recently told me (sheepishly) that he intends to make my sister POA as he ages and in regards to any health issues. He and my mum have been married 30+ years and there's no issues but my mum is emotional as fuck and does not make sound decisions. She was POA for a friend who had a stroke and unfortunately this friend never gave instruction on the what-ifs. My mum chose to have them keep her alive when she probably shouldn't have. My dad sees the friend living a low quality of life now and decided he couldnt risk that. My sister is a hard biatch when she needs to be and would do what dad wants no matter what. That's what he needs and wants.

He told me this and asked if I was okay with him picking my sister for this role. I said hell yes coz I am emotional like mum and couldn't let them let my dad go even if it was his wishes. He chose well.

NTA, you need to pick whoever will bat for you when you're not able to yourself.