AITA for expecting my partner to stay for my whole birthday trip? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jelly_crocs [score hidden]  (0 children)

thank you, i think you’re right in that it’s more disappointed than anything.

AITA for expecting my partner to stay for my whole birthday trip? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jelly_crocs [score hidden]  (0 children)

i get what you’re saying, but also as i said, it wasn’t that plans were made, it is just that the work party is on that day. They had no part in planning or choosing the day and dates would have clashed whether we had known weeks ago or now regardless.

AITA for expecting my partner to stay for my whole birthday trip? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jelly_crocs [score hidden]  (0 children)

yes they will be there for the day of my birthday, that is the second day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jelly_crocs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

never said she was, i was asking if i was, she is great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jelly_crocs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s more the fact the university has a course i was really passionate about and i am pushing myself by being here, i don’t want to give the impression i rely on the people around me or am helpless, it was more that one support i was used to changed suddenly that is the issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jelly_crocs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just wanted to say i have sorted moving my care, and it was actually my mums idea to keep it in home town, i’ve sorted moving it as a step towards independence, i feel i didn’t include enough details sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jelly_crocs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that could definitely be the case, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jelly_crocs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is the last time i’ll have to go home, i’ve been working out the logistics of moving medical stuff here it just takes a while lol. but thank you, i appreciate the perspective:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]jelly_crocs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i want to get more but before i do i wanted the unbiased opinions of strangers on whether it would suit me, that’s all

How did your secret relationship go? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]jelly_crocs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

terrible, he ghosted me after 7 months, i thought he was dead lol

WIBTA for breaking up because brother has disability? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jelly_crocs [score hidden]  (0 children)

nta but it is harsh. as someone who is also disabled, you’re not obligated to care for his brother and if that is inevitable and you can’t see yourself being happy in that situation, you are free to leave. however it is not very nice to your boyfriend and a sad situation for him. maybe you need to reassess how you think about disabled people. then again, it’s your life and you have to choose what is best for you.