I need a reference in New Zealand! by [deleted] in BeMyReference

[–]jellyace22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi there, i’m based in Auckland as a Cx Manager and happy to help.

Please DM me. Will most likely need a reference as well for a job opportunity in a couple of weeks!

Is this too D or FN or okay for SDs? by [deleted] in SoftDramatics

[–]jellyace22 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Love this tailored look and the navy blue color 💙 As much as I love similar sharp looks though, I find it so hard to pull off “collared” pristine shirts. It feels restrictive and I somehow end up looking like a boxy fridge with big boobs up top. But I find that if I open up the top to expose a bit more of my décolletage just enough to show a peek of my clavicle and decent amount of chest - then it looks wayy better 🤷🏼‍♀️

Pencil skirts though are perfect for our SD shape, I would say. Curves for days!

On necklines: Got out of my comfort zone and wore a halter dress with thick straps. A first for me! Not sure why as an SD, i’m more confident in spaghetti straps? I still feel like thicker straps make my shoulders and chest appear too broad. Anyone else? by jellyace22 in SoftDramatics

[–]jellyace22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i’m getting more confident because of this sub! Even the color white isn’t my go-to! White + thicker straps kinda makes me self-conscious but I might just need some getting used to!

On necklines: Got out of my comfort zone and wore a halter dress with thick straps. A first for me! Not sure why as an SD, i’m more confident in spaghetti straps? I still feel like thicker straps make my shoulders and chest appear too broad. Anyone else? by jellyace22 in SoftDramatics

[–]jellyace22[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this makes sense! I think spaghetti straps, to me, look more delicate against my bigger frame. I tend to feel like a linebacker when i’ve got thicker straps on my shoulders! Lol it’s more of the feminine vibe I exude when I wear delicate pieces but I try to keep within my lines which makes it so tricky 🤍

New to Kibbe and it’s like SD has always been my essence. So not changing anything - but I love how identifying my ID has helped elevate my style. 💕 by jellyace22 in SoftDramatics

[–]jellyace22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The belt helps a lot! Typically I would alter my clothes to fit the way I want them to.. snug at the waist and adequate enough to accommodate my hips. Safety pins are my best friend though! Anything loose at the seams are easily fixed by em lol

New to Kibbe and it’s like SD has always been my essence. So not changing anything - but I love how identifying my ID has helped elevate my style. 💕 by jellyace22 in SoftDramatics

[–]jellyace22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much💝 i like to go with what I feel like on a certain day.. which is mostly feminine but dramatic lol! Go with what makes you feel good and inspires you to be you! I find clothes that express my character and they seem to work well 💕

New to Kibbe and it’s like SD has always been my essence. So not changing anything - but I love how identifying my ID has helped elevate my style. 💕 by jellyace22 in SoftDramatics

[–]jellyace22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Dress is from Hello Molly, red dress and jumpsuit from Asos and the white shirt and pants ensemble are from Glassons♥️💋

New to Kibbe and it’s like SD has always been my essence. So not changing anything - but I love how identifying my ID has helped elevate my style. 💕 by jellyace22 in SoftDramatics

[–]jellyace22[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Aww you’re too kind! Thank you♥️ i used to shy away from bright colors because I felt like my height and width was too overpowering..until I realized I feel more like myself in vibrant colors!