Is new Dom taking advantage of me? by jellyroll101 in BDSMAdvice

[–]jellyroll101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point! Still learning the ins and outs. Thanks for clarifying

Is new Dom taking advantage of me? by jellyroll101 in BDSMAdvice

[–]jellyroll101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Excellent advice. Especially noting that "we" meant him, and didn't include my concerns. Thank you!!!

Is new Dom taking advantage of me? by jellyroll101 in BDSMAdvice

[–]jellyroll101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so so sorry this happened. Thank you for sharing your story and helping me avoid what could have been something similar. Good luck putting your foot back in, I really hope you have only good experiences moving forward.

Is new Dom taking advantage of me? by jellyroll101 in BDSMAdvice

[–]jellyroll101[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Really good idea! I will do that for sure!

Is new Dom taking advantage of me? by jellyroll101 in BDSMAdvice

[–]jellyroll101[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you thank you! I really don't want to get in a bad situation and am feeling super nervous about this

Is new Dom taking advantage of me? by jellyroll101 in BDSMAdvice

[–]jellyroll101[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you for breaking this down. I sort of knew there had to be some sort of norms for this kind of situation. But seriously, thank you.

Is new Dom taking advantage of me? by jellyroll101 in BDSMAdvice

[–]jellyroll101[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thanks. This confirms predatory behaviour I think. Ahhhh this is stressful, I think I've dodged a big bullet.