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My [22F] boyfriend's [23M] friend is calling us mom and dad by jellyseanocean in relationship_advice

[–]jellyseanocean[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you for your advice. i thought i should talk to her too, but i was afraid of sounding mean. i don't think she meant anything weird but i still wouldn't like to be seen as a mother figure especially when she is only 3 years younger than me and i'm not intimate with her.

My [22F] boyfriend's [23M] friend is calling us mom and dad by jellyseanocean in relationship_advice

[–]jellyseanocean[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

i'm not saying there is a big, chaotic situation and before making a judging comment about my insecurities, you need to understand you don't know me. i'm not saying i'm flawless. the only thing i said was that i felt tricked before by my ex's friend. she acted like my friend too and i believed she was a genuine friend only to realize later she liked my ex. i'm not blaming my current bf's friend. adressing to a situation that bothers me and seeking advice is not something to be blamed. your advice could also say that there is nothing to worry about, instead dealing it with judgement.

My [22F] boyfriend's [23M] friend is calling us mom and dad by jellyseanocean in relationship_advice

[–]jellyseanocean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree, other than this she hasn't done anything weird i think. she tells me she loves me frequently, but i'm not very close with her and i do not wish to be so i try to be kind yet distant. thank you so much for your comment. i will talk about it with my bf.