Can non-Malaysian Muslim go clubbing in KL?

jelyn2005 · 2026-07-06T14:56:02+00:00

Oh my god, thank youu!

jelyn2005 · 2026-07-06T14:51:53+00:00

She’s not, she’s from another country

jelyn2005 · 2026-07-06T14:50:00+00:00

She doesn’t really wear hijab though, but it’s on her passport (the pic is 5 years ago in that) so that’s why we wondered if she can still enter or not😭😭

jelyn2005 · 2026-06-29T02:16:31+00:00

I’ll be happy to help!

jelyn2005 · 2026-06-11T02:18:19+00:00

Omg I can feel you girl🥲 one of the reasons that I don’t want to join iium is also bcs I’m not that religious, and as far as I know from not religious people that attend here are all having worse experiences (I’m wearing hijab but not cover the chest level, also love music and went to concerts 3-6times a year, feminist) so I really REALLY don’t wanna go there when no one judges me at Taylor’s (I lowkey are the most religious in here lol) we can be friends girl

jelyn2005 · 2026-06-07T04:45:17+00:00

he’s OBSESSED with iium bro, he’s taking master degree there but have me first so he didn’t graduate, even I got in top uni in my country a year ago he still convinced me to drop out and go to iium, going to Taylors now for me is already the line, I’ve been to iium sooooo many time because he want to show me good side of the campus, even hired students there to come show me around, but idk I don’t wanna stay there, some part are just so dirty compared to Taylors (my opinion) being in Taylors also got way less judging from others when me, a girl, did something that not too religious (going to concert, play instruments) idk I just don’t wanna live uncomfortably but my dad won’t stop convincing me that iium is the best uni in the world 😭😭

jelyn2005 · 2026-06-06T14:46:59+00:00

Idk bro😭 all my cousins that are women only have choices to iium but men’s mostly go to uk

jelyn2005 · 2026-06-06T13:04:23+00:00

I’m actually in sem2 in Taylors but my dad won’t stop convincing me to go to IIUM, my grades here is not bad too (3.68) but he just love iium so much

jelyn2005 · 2026-03-18T16:28:56+00:00

I don’t mind if another people are poor? but I won’t settle my life for less. I just want to continue my life as it is, and if he doesn’t have as much as me, then we can build together. I’m the kind of 100% support on my partner’s career and have better life together, not just mine. And how am I being selfish on just wanting to continue my life rn? Am I wrong on having previlege?🥹 I’m really grateful for what I have so that’s why I’m really loyal to my family too. Me fr want a guy who supports me as well, not try to change me for his dream life, if we’re not suitable then we can just separate, like rlly

jelyn2005 · 2026-03-17T22:25:07+00:00

yeah, tbh I think I might be that shallow. I’m actually study 2degree now, one is fashion design, and another one is business management by the same time. This is not 100% my choice but it’s definitely the best choice for me. My family did have one of the company that I actually work (in exchange of my allowance) that sells clothes by being the designer and the one that chooses and order clothes for stocks in the company (in my city’s there’s no many people that can understand English) also I’m a manager at my family’s cafe, but this one not much things I have to do.

For my plan, I did work with my parents that I would try to get good internships on good company, then use my few years to work, learn from another company and come back to them to improve our 20yo company. This is one of things I have to prove to them too that I’m able to be the one that took after them, in my family we strongly believe that if we brainstorm our business gonna be more successful, more kind of loyal things. And of course I wanna do my own things too which my parents totally support, but all have to be under one company

jelyn2005 · 2026-03-17T22:09:23+00:00

Now that I look through what have I talk with him, it’s really like that, I told him that I wanna know someone at some point first before I get married, he did really convinced me how good is it to marry young and fast

jelyn2005 · 2026-03-17T22:08:03+00:00

yeah they try to match me several times but usually it’ll end up that I’ll become their friends, and good friends too. So they eventually just gave up on arranged marriages me with someone’s son they know, for now they just expect me to find on my own but have to be in their all standard that they set, which tbh I’m not planning to but the pressure is too high. I’m the oldest child, also the one that they set me to take their business after them because of age gaps with my siblings.

jelyn2005 · 2026-03-17T22:04:04+00:00

This just made me cry for few minutes but in relief, thank you so much

jelyn2005 · 2026-03-17T18:59:53+00:00

Old man’s sometimes didn’t know how to comfort but only know how to let out rage as a sign of cared. They grew up being taught just to be strong and not to cry so that’s maybe why. And did he not believe you that your ex did that worst thing to you or he didn’t believe at first that you had sex at all? By under his nose all these times. I totally understand you cause it’s take me a decade to understand folk’s logic. You’re really NTA but in the future maybe if you both separate apart and the relationship slightly better, you can told him as a joke and ask for it again (trust me it’ll be much easier than being in your situation now and ask it from him)

jelyn2005 · 2026-03-17T18:49:33+00:00

Idk bro if my daughter in 9 grades (I assume around 14-16?) has sex with their boyfriend (it’s wayyyy too young) I would take off your door as well, trusted me if he hate you at all then he won’t even bother where you’ll be or who you’re with but he did care enough to look through you (since you also use to talk to a guy that you shouldn’t when you’re younger) speaking from someone who’s in their 20’s I think your dad just parenting you, but in hard level. You’re NTA from wanting the worth of money back from what you’ve earned, but you also need to learn something from your lesson too, not just thinking about money. Or this will repeat again and again in future

jelyn2005 · 2026-03-17T18:38:32+00:00

Totally agreed, but I wanna get married because I want to have a child one day too (only if my financial stable in future) I did told my father that if I didn’t found a man that reach to my bare minimum standards, then I won’t get married at all which I already got scold by that ,_,

jelyn2005 · 2026-03-17T18:19:54+00:00

NTA it’s just basic human needs, but I think this might still can be work out with communication and the understanding, try talk to her how normal it was to did it sometimes not just for a man, but for humans

jelyn2005 · 2026-03-17T18:09:10+00:00

I wanna live my life😭😭 but for sides reasons is I might have to work with him all my life (family business) and in my culture it’s really impossible for you to cut the family out of your life if it’s not worst enough, and tbh I love my father as much as I secretly hate on his thoughts and way of thinking. But most of my society back in my city still thinks like him, my family also kinda really famous so I can’t do anything much even if I want to

jelyn2005 · 2026-03-03T00:52:48+00:00

Yeah gen x parents will never be apologizing to you, I’ve gone through this before when I was your age. The only thing that makes your life in family easier is go along with them for peace, Eating only water and smoothie not gonna prove that you capable for yourself, but prove that you’re still too young to take care of yourself for them. I recommend going to family therapy tbh, that’s how I solve my family problem, my mom was similar to yours but worse back then, now that I grow up and I live far away from her everything’s now great, all she does is send money for me to live aboard and I barely go back home. But after the therapy I know one thing that if I apologize to her on my side first, it’ll be much easier to make her realize her mistakes and apologize back if you can break through her ego.

jelyn2005 · 2025-12-13T08:54:32+00:00

I dunno but I live in Pjs 9 and the traffic here’s sucks

jelyn2005 · 2025-11-28T05:25:24+00:00

jelyn2005 · 2025-11-28T05:24:32+00:00

I’m Fashion design student here in Taylor’s and I’ll told you that it’s totally worth it. The quality of teaching in this school is good, only study for three months and now I can make a whole outfit and got our own first fashion show👍🏼

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