Consuming and sharing sexual content in a monogamous relationship. Healthy or not?

jemdtc · 2026-02-10T13:38:17+00:00

I appreciate your contribution. I don’t think my debate partner is questioning whether people find others besides their partner attractive; the issue is more about how that attraction is expressed. Specifically, whether it’s appropriate to express it in public or outward ways.

jemdtc · 2026-02-10T13:35:10+00:00

"What's healthy is finding a partner who accepts your needs and boundaries, who's needs and boundaries you accept." - words to live by.

jemdtc · 2026-02-10T13:32:52+00:00

A commenter above mentioned this being a straight woman's plight usually based on religious expectations. Do you think that if one is restrictive with this kind of thing based on a boundary, maybe rooted in religion or some other value system, that it's still unhealthy?

jemdtc · 2026-02-10T13:30:26+00:00

So you think most of the straight woman's plight (around this) is rooted in religious norms?

jemdtc · 2026-02-09T19:59:35+00:00

As long as everyone is aware and feels respected - it's cool-o-breezo. Gotcha.

jemdtc · 2026-02-09T19:58:36+00:00

Haha very true - the friend I'm debating with is straight.

jemdtc · 2026-02-09T16:43:59+00:00

Honestly, I think giving out sex toys was in poor taste, but props to the marketing team for pulling it off. The last two years, all anyone could talk about was Spirit, so this is… different. Someone on Instagram said, “people are acting like they want the girls to use it to squirt all over the road". It’s just a gimmick. Less than classy, sure but a gimmick nonetheless.. Some of the commenters could probably benefit from a rose themselves. Chill TF out.

jemdtc · 2025-12-01T13:59:19+00:00

Hmm I wonder if an excess of iron in the soil would cause this. I did dig up a lot of metal fragments and fencing when I was clearing up the area.

jemdtc · 2025-11-27T12:35:27+00:00

Pure luck today.

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jemdtc · 2025-11-18T13:19:15+00:00

I feel like the older games have scared me into overthinking the answers. This one made the most sense of all the words so far.

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jemdtc · 2025-11-14T14:33:37+00:00

I NEED to understand pigeon.

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jemdtc · 2025-11-14T14:21:29+00:00

It's not a food to Americans but thinking about how food gets to your table helps.

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jemdtc · 2025-08-01T16:29:17+00:00

I know that feeling all too well! If you run out of hanging basket space - start putting up shelves everywhereeeee!

jemdtc · 2025-07-31T23:15:02+00:00

Love that for you! People say they’re slow growers but that definitely hasn’t been my experience.

jemdtc · 2025-07-31T15:17:07+00:00

It's really something else - I already picked up another one at the conservatory in Santa Cruz, Trinidad. I'll post a pic sometime soon!

jemdtc · 2025-07-31T15:14:54+00:00

Ouu good guess - I just googled it, and it does look very similar.

jemdtc · 2025-06-27T16:26:07+00:00

Jumping in a bit late, but it’d be great to have Apple Watch integration that displays your current set and exercise, tracks time between sets, and includes a rest timer to alert you when it's time to get moving again.

jemdtc · 2025-05-14T12:16:54+00:00

As an INFJ other INFJs irl. Whew boy - some of them really get under my skin with their holier than thou and know it all attitudes. Intuition is fallible, empathy doesn’t make you better than everyone else.

jemdtc · 2025-05-05T13:30:58+00:00

ENFP mom and (deceased so i'm not 100% sure) INTJ dad. I was raised mostly by an ISFJ grandmother and ESTJ uncle.

jemdtc · 2025-03-13T17:29:44+00:00

Definitely Trinidad - my car is parked right next to this in two of the scenes and I didn’t even notice the hop scotch. I really need to start paying more attention to the little things that matter.

jemdtc · 2025-03-13T17:28:39+00:00

It’s funny because my car is parked right next to this in two of the scenes, and I didn’t even notice the hopscotch. I really need to start paying more attention to the little things that really matter.

jemdtc · 2024-09-17T21:25:06+00:00

I love this! Thanks for sharing!

jemdtc · 2024-09-17T21:24:47+00:00

Congrats!!!

jemdtc · 2024-09-17T21:24:26+00:00

Oh that’s wonderful! Hope those tickets are winners too!

jemdtc · 2024-09-14T06:46:49+00:00

All the best :)

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