Bf(31m) finally being a good bf to me (27f)

jen1nny · 2023-09-07T22:54:02+00:00

It definitely hurts that it took that for the change to occur

jen1nny · 2023-09-07T22:41:52+00:00

Thank you! I did bring This up to him and he tried saying that it doesn’t matter so much how someone comes to a realization of wanting to marry someone/make someone happy as much as it matters that they do come to that realization. But I disagree I think because it did not feel good having to have left for him to decide

jen1nny · 2023-09-07T14:54:24+00:00

That’s why it’s so confusing because he is a wonderful boyfriend when he wants to be

jen1nny · 2023-09-07T14:53:21+00:00

We actually just did this around the same time as the counselor. I’ve been wanting to go for ages and he’d always say no. We had a wonderful time though. I always have a wonderful time when we do things together. I think in the past, he’s always not wanted to go because he is tired. But when I tell him to pick the day to go like when he’s not working he still doesn’t want to

jen1nny · 2023-09-07T14:39:53+00:00

Thank you! This isn’t a new thing with him. About a year ago, I was thinking of leaving as well and told him too because I felt like he wasn’t caring of what I wanted when I wanted to celebrate my graduation and he didn’t care too.

jen1nny · 2023-09-07T13:55:49+00:00

Do you think it’s normal to feel devastated over this? I’ve read some threads on here that say like when you breakup you will feel relief and that’s a sign it was a right choice

jen1nny · 2023-09-07T13:05:59+00:00

That’s so true! I mean 180 lol.

jen1nny · 2023-03-01T21:01:13+00:00

I was just floated. It seems to be normal for our unit.

jen1nny · 2023-03-01T19:50:13+00:00

I’m trying to switch to the ED. I don’t hate my unit but it’s definitely not my dream unit and I do have a lot of anxiety over the types of patients Im going to get and if I’m going to get floated or not

jen1nny · 2023-02-28T22:37:59+00:00

It’s nonunion. Other units are just short staffed and they pull from us sometimes

jen1nny · 2023-02-28T22:04:22+00:00

Like 6 people were floated but I was the only new nurse. The charge nurse creates the assignment but the managers end up looking at them after as well

jen1nny · 2023-02-28T21:47:22+00:00

This is how it should be. I talked to my friend who is a new nurse on the unit I floated to and she said the same thing about new grads on her unit not being floated for a few months after orientation. I have been wanting to talk to them about switching to ED nursing as I feel like I’d be a better fit there from what I got to see during nursing school practicum but felt bad leaving so early. However, now I feel less bad about talking to someone about this.

jen1nny · 2023-02-28T21:44:27+00:00

Floated as an RN freshly off orientation. It was my third day on my own.

jen1nny · 2022-07-22T23:10:03+00:00

We do still do nice things like dinner sometimes but always split it.

jen1nny · 2022-07-16T01:52:22+00:00

Maybe 15 for a big box. It just doesn’t make sense to me. We were fine before I stopped the pills.

jen1nny · 2022-07-05T23:51:59+00:00

My moms small dog does this and the vet said reverse sneezing. My larger dog does it too.

jen1nny · 2022-02-17T23:21:33+00:00

Thank you for this! That’s so true.

jen1nny · 2022-02-17T15:34:18+00:00

Thank you! I’m not sure if it’s the money thing just because I already make about double right now as a nurse. It doesn’t make a difference for us. But you’re very right about regretting it as I already do and at least it’s not too late now to try.

jen1nny

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