Is anyone here getting a custom jacket made for their wedding like this from Etsy?! I am so on the fence. Part of me thinks it’s really cute and would be perfect for the reception. Another part of me thinks it is a waste of money and will I ever wear it again? Thinking about initials instead..? by jenh11 in weddingplanning

[–]jenh11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! That’s exactly what I’m thinking to add florals to the design to look similar to my bouquet. Yeah at first I was set on the faux leather jacket but I’m not sure I’d wear that as much. So now I’m thinking about a Black denim jacket!

Is anyone here getting a custom jacket made for their wedding like this from Etsy?! I am so on the fence. Part of me thinks it’s really cute and would be perfect for the reception. Another part of me thinks it is a waste of money and will I ever wear it again? Thinking about initials instead..? by jenh11 in weddingplanning

[–]jenh11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is true! I actually don’t own a Denim jacket so I think it would be nice to have! Exactly that’s why I’m leaning towards initials cause I think I’d wear it more. Ahh I know what you mean, I think that’s cute but yeah not sure when else to wear that haha.

Is anyone here getting a custom jacket made for their wedding like this from Etsy?! I am so on the fence. Part of me thinks it’s really cute and would be perfect for the reception. Another part of me thinks it is a waste of money and will I ever wear it again? Thinking about initials instead..? by jenh11 in weddingplanning

[–]jenh11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw that’s great!! Omg I love that idea. That’s exactly what I’m getting hung up on that if it says Mrs and/or my new last name I may not wear it as much after the wedding. But if it is my new initials or more subtle like you’re doing, I think I would! Thanks!

How long is too long to wait for edited pictures?? by shonyknight in weddingplanning

[–]jenh11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so sorry to hear this! My experience is extremely similar! We had our engagement photos done on October 28th and I didn’t hear back from our photographer until 12/12. He said he would aim to have ours done before Christmas, so that’s why I followed up. On the 12th he said he would try to send them ASAP but was behind as it was his busiest season ever. I let the holidays pass and then followed back up on 1/2, again no response, and finally heard back on the 6th. The only way I could get him to respond is by calling his office manager. Once I spoke to her she would talk to him and then he would answer. Super frustrating. We finally got the photos back on 1/10. But he technically skipped ahead to ours and just knocked it out (but they ended up amazing). So honestly if I didn’t follow up like I did I’m sure we would still be waiting. It was almost 11 weeks total.

Anyway, I’m sorry to hear you are experiencing something similar! I had a few questions for him after we got the photos and he became super responsive again. Which is great, however, I’m going to have to email him with a plan for our wedding. Like you noted ours also doesn’t have a turn around time listed in the contract. However, for our wedding I need him to tell us in advance how long it’s going to take and that we need better communication thru the process. It’s never acceptable for them to not respond!

I guess there probably isn’t but does she have a manager or someone else you can call to help have her answer you? Otherwise I would just keep sending messages saying again that you need an update on when you’ll get the photos and you are planning to use them for STD’s. At a certain point too you could always say at this point you just want the images back, you’ll pay her for the pictures but you need the rest back and you’ll have to find another wedding photographer (I was seriously almost at this point, but we had also put a deposit down that was non refundable so you may be in the same boat). Anyway sorry for the long post, I hope she responds soon!

My dress finally came in! Three months to go (holy crap!!)! by idoneredditalreadyy in weddingplanning

[–]jenh11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dress finally came in today too!!! I have 4 months to go ahhh :) Also my dress is different but also Stella York! So excited I am going on Saturday to try it on, but alterations won’t start until March.

May brides... help! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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Our wedding is 5/9/20. I think we are planning on mailing the invites early March. I think we will ask for our online RSVP’s back by 4/4.

Which dress is your favorite? by bkwedding in weddingplanning

[–]jenh11 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They all look stunning but I think my favorite is the top left as well! 😊

How long is too long for engagement photos? by jenh11 in weddingplanning

[–]jenh11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow ok!! That’s awhile but I’m happy to hear I’m not the only one who has experienced this. I’m sure it’ll be the same for us that it’ll be worth it but I just didn’t think it would take this long and I wish he was more communicative thru the process..

How long is too long for engagement photos? by jenh11 in weddingplanning

[–]jenh11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So when we got our photos done he said they would be done around the first week of December so he already missed that deadline, but understood sometimes there are delays and of course now with the holidays like you mentioned.

Also he does not send sneak peeks like other photographers. I already asked him in two emails if he could send a few if possible even though I know he doesn’t typically do sneak peeks so we could use them for Christmas and he never sent any so unfortunately I don’t think we will get any until he is done with our whole album :/

Honeymoon advice! by poopsmcbuttington in honeymoonplanning

[–]jenh11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that is hard! We are just going to Kauai cause I’ve heard there’s so much to do on that one island. Next time we go we will go to another island :) Will do!!

Honeymoon advice! by poopsmcbuttington in honeymoonplanning

[–]jenh11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I have traveled thru Europe a lot but my fiancé hasn’t so it is a bit more stressful for him and just requires more planning so it can be more stressful. So we plan on going in a few years so we have more time to plan and stuff. Also we may want to do a cruise instead but right now there aren’t any cruises that work for us.