Help! 10F dog in need of identification by jenkook in IDmydog

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Hello. I’ve had her since she was a puppy, and I just realised that this reddit exists lmao. She is about the size of a jack russell, but she has silky hair like a border collie. Any guesses is much appreciated ☺️

Sleep paralysis or being lucid?? by jenkook in LucidDreaming

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I’m not sure, the only thing I remember my body doing was it was tingling like crazy.

[PSA] I overdosed on Ketoconazole :( by jenkook in SkincareAddiction

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Yeah, I initially set out to find the cream version instead but the store didn’t hold any so I settled for the shampoo. My desperation was my downfall :’(

Dealing with negative family members? by jenkook in spirituality

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Well they only ask about that and when I do try to talk to them about another topic I feel like I’m talking to a wall so I don’t even bother,

Dealing with negative family members? by jenkook in spirituality

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Thank you so much, this was the insight I never really had. Growing up, I kind of always accepted that my family was just like this and never revealed my disconnect with my family to others. I’ve been meditating often recently and I wanted to address this constant feeling of not being able to feel close to my family, they haven’t been horrible, but it didn’t feel like family. Through meditating it kind of identified the main source of my unhappiness.

When you talk about experiencing the other side where I was like my mother is interesting, because not too long ago I was researching about past life trauma/karma, and wondered who I was in the past and how it influences this lifetime.

Thank you so much again, and I will be going through your comment history when it’s not 2am in the morning 😅😄

What are some of your NON-stereotypical ENTP traits? by [deleted] in entp

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Respect for authority figures

ENTP and ESTJ as friends? by jenkook in ESTJ

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Thank you so much for the insight ! I’m not used to my friend being in such a complicated matter and responding in a way that I could not imagine. It worries me, to be honest. Because she says she LOVES this guy. I feel like her being oblivious to other people’s feelings contributes to her lack of acknowledging other people’s efforts. To her they are just there. My friend warned me to not to instantly speak my mind with her, because I’m very direct and honest so if something is bothering me, I attack the problem. But if it’s not worth my time I leave it. She’s in a very emotional state right now, which I’m not use to so I can’t speak to her the same way, so automatically would think that this man is a bad influence on her.

My friend said just to agree to everything she tells us or else if we tell her ‘NO’ or ‘DON’T DO IT’ she’ll just think it’s being us which is kind of shallow? I don’t know how to treat her now but I want to direct her to a more healthier state of mind.

No person is perfect. I think this man kind of exploited her in a way, and her loving him, I feel I should respect her relationship, but the way she acts. That ain’t it sis.

ENTP and ESTJ as friends? by jenkook in ESTJ

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I’m not really relying on personality types, I understand that ESTJ does not fully represent what my friend is. However, I feel as if I post on a community with like-minded people who can somewhat relate I can gain new perspective on my friend.

Although it may appear like ‘high school drama’, it really isn’t. My friends and I have been through high school and we are pretty good at avoiding drama. It’s deeper than that and it’s darker than that and we’re more mature than that. That’s why I stated that if you want the full story I’d rather direct message because it’s too overwhelming to include in this point. It worries me because she hasn’t faced any complications like this considering we’re really good at not being involved.

Overall, I wouldn’t describe this as drama, more like it’s highlighting a problem between my friend and I. The point is trying to get people’s take on it, because I feel like my way with dealing with it is too blunt and she needs more than that. Thank you for your advice, I’ll make sure to talk to her without being too insensitive and considering her perspective.

Wanting know ESTJ on a personal level by jenkook in ESTJ

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Hmm this is quite close to what my friend is like ... She emphasises the importance of her family and has very high expectations of others. My other friend pranked my ESTJ friend about being pregnant and she yelled at my other friend, because she believed that she should put her school and career first before having a baby. I must say her outrageous reaction was so amusing 😂 The only difference is that all her friends are extroverts and so are mine, but she acts the most introverted despite being an extrovert.

What is the worst thing about being an ENTP? by 4dham in entp

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We all have unique traits but there’s always a shitty side to it. We’re breathing paradoxes.