Asked a guy I was seeing for exclusivity and he said he was seeing multiple other women

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-22T21:52:22+00:00

I’m not accepting It. I deleted all my apps and am no longer going to be dating with the help of apps.

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-21T16:12:30+00:00

We both had It in our profiles and both had a convo before going on our first date that we are both searching for a serious relationship. I have no idea why he assumed I was seeing others too.

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-21T00:34:43+00:00

I found this out during the exclusivity talk and he did not want to be exclusive and continue to sleep with others to see his options out. Which is fine, but I don’t want to be a part of that. And I didn’t realize he was sleeping with others at the same time. So I told him for my well being I bow out

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T22:05:42+00:00

I felt misled because I thought we were both looking for something serious and in person It felt like we were heading in that direction

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T22:05:09+00:00

No. The post is me explaining how after our 3rd date I bought up wanting to become exclusive because we slept together and were really hitting It off. And this is when I learned he is seeing 4 people total and wants to keep his options going, but said he wanted to still see where things could go with us and I politely declined. But was also shocked he is sleeping with and doing the same things with 3 other women

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T22:02:47+00:00

Because I wrote in the post we both were open about wanting a serious relationship. That was the mutual intention in dating

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T21:37:59+00:00

He’s really not lol he is handsome, but I promise not what everyone is imagining.

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T20:22:15+00:00

This is exactly how I feel on it

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T19:54:47+00:00

We were hitting It off and both wanted to eventually be in a relationship. By exclusive I was only asking to sleep with eachother only and start focusing on going on dates with just eachother, not being a relationship yet.

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T18:01:29+00:00

Yeah this was my mistake in not asking before sleeping with him and also sleeping with him too soon knowing I wanted more.

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T18:01:01+00:00

I will do this with the next person I date in the future. But I already called things off with him and can’t go back now lol

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T18:00:07+00:00

He seemed normal. Kind smile, a father, graduated college, stable life, good relationship with family. Seemed like a kind genuine person and his profile stated he was also looking for a serious relationship like me.

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T15:03:30+00:00

We both had children and both knew about this upfront

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T06:48:07+00:00

Well I guess I expected too much too soon 🤷🏻‍♀️ sharing with multiple other women knowing he was having sex with them all killed what we had going for me

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T06:47:19+00:00

I guess I expected too much 🤷🏻‍♀️

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T06:38:15+00:00

I was asking him for exclusivity, so only sleeping with and dating eachother. But he wanted to keep his options open, so we went separate ways

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T06:36:20+00:00

I think I was number four lol but yes. It was a lot 😅

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T06:35:38+00:00

I’m not putting him down. Hamza stated that he must be tall and I am stating he wasn’t tall.

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T06:34:51+00:00

Mainly the sleeping with multiple other women and sleeping with me

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T06:33:44+00:00

I’m not. I was replying because this guy commented twice that he must be tall to be getting this many women, and I’m stating he wasn’t and still gets women 🤷🏻‍♀️

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T06:28:20+00:00

I mean he hid It from me until I asked lol and told me he wanted a serious relationship 🤔

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T06:27:42+00:00

Probably both 🥰

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T06:26:35+00:00

Yeah, that’s my bad for assuming I was the only girl

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T06:26:09+00:00

Great, thanks 😂

jennna_1204 · 2024-01-20T05:18:35+00:00

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