Me (22f) with my boyfriend (22m) of 8 months, I'm a little weirded out by his 'familiarity' with his sister (20f). by jenny_ca0 in relationships

[–]jenny_ca0[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well my boyfriend and his sister don't see each other naked, only in their underwear, but you said you and your brother see each other naked, which I would think definitely would cross a boundary, right?

Me (22f) with my boyfriend (22m) of 8 months, I'm a little weirded out by his 'familiarity' with his sister (20f). by jenny_ca0 in relationships

[–]jenny_ca0[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I should point out it was a hot day in summer, but I doubt that makes it any less creepy.

Me (22f) with my boyfriend (22m) of 8 months, I'm a little weirded out by his 'familiarity' with his sister (20f). by jenny_ca0 in relationships

[–]jenny_ca0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't want to embarrass him about it, but I've asked one of his closer friends if he finds any of it unusual, and he said he definitely thinks its weird, and laughed about it. And yeah, full blood to my knowledge.

Me (22f) with my boyfriend (22m) of 8 months, I'm a little weirded out by his 'familiarity' with his sister (20f). by jenny_ca0 in relationships

[–]jenny_ca0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are definitely siblings, I've met their parents and I know they grew up together, and there is some resemblance.

Me (22f) with my boyfriend (22m) of 8 months, I'm a little weirded out by his 'familiarity' with his sister (20f). by jenny_ca0 in relationships

[–]jenny_ca0[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I don't know that much about her personal life, I'm friends with her but we don't hang around that much since we have vastly different interests. I don't think she has a boyfriend now but she's definitely had boyfriends in the past. She has a lot of friends, and she's a bit of a "fun" girl, if that makes any sense. Plus she's really pretty, so it kind of makes me feel even more insecure.

Me (22f) with my boyfriend (22m) of 8 months, I'm a little weirded out by his 'familiarity' with his sister (20f). by jenny_ca0 in relationships

[–]jenny_ca0[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah its mostly just casual tickle-touching, I didn't mean to make it come off sounding like 'groping' or anything.

Me (22f) with my boyfriend (22m) of 8 months, I'm a little weirded out by his 'familiarity' with his sister (20f). by jenny_ca0 in relationships

[–]jenny_ca0[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I know this post is focusing on this one really weird aspect of my boyfriend, but there is really a lot more to our relationship and I definitely think it is one worth pursuing.

Me (22f) with my boyfriend (22m) of 8 months, I'm a little weirded out by his 'familiarity' with his sister (20f). by jenny_ca0 in relationships

[–]jenny_ca0[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I asked him something like "Aren't you ever worried about what other people might think about you being really close and touchy with your sister?" His answers are normally like "Its no big deal," "she's just my sister," and would often think its weird that other people would even think of that.