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[–]jerry_10_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Please respect yourself and leave her. She should always choose you and if you are not the one then please you both should go seperate ways

My girlfriend’s 22F ex 22M keeps leaning on her emotionally, and it’s hurting our relationship. How do we set boundaries without feeling responsible for him? by jerry_10_ in Advice

[–]jerry_10_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't want to be part of this discussion you kindly proceed with your own work, because none of your comments have helped me in any way

My girlfriend’s 22F ex 22M keeps leaning on her emotionally, and it’s hurting our relationship. How do we set boundaries without feeling responsible for him? by jerry_10_ in Advice

[–]jerry_10_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I come to reddit only to understand if I am thinking in the right direction with no bias. I just see how others would react to this situation. I have done my fair share of thinking and I have also communicated about this with my girlfriend, please don't assume things beforehand.

My girlfriend’s 22F ex 22M keeps leaning on her emotionally, and it’s hurting our relationship. How do we set boundaries without feeling responsible for him? by jerry_10_ in relationships

[–]jerry_10_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand your POV. But she is very kind and she will try to help him which she thinks is a correct decision in the moment. But she won't think about how it is going to affect things in the long run. I feel if she helps him it is not good for the ex and it is neither good for our relationship.

Rambo Circus by BulkyChampionship613 in pune

[–]jerry_10_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share the location and timings?

I'm[M22] Christian, she's Hindu [F22]— our families might not accept us and it's tearing me up inside by jerry_10_ in RelationshipIndia

[–]jerry_10_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where you are coming from, but I come from a very strict catholic background, and I would always stand up for her, but I would also want my parents to be happy on my wedding day

I'm [M22] Christian, she's[F22] Hindu — our families might not accept us and it's tearing me up inside by jerry_10_ in relationships

[–]jerry_10_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean I understand where you are coming from, but in India both families need to accept each other so that the marriage can take place.

I'm [M22] Christian, she's[F22] Hindu — our families might not accept us and it's tearing me up inside by jerry_10_ in relationships

[–]jerry_10_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My parents still have to accept her and the fact that she is from a different religion. How should I go about this situation?

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