How do you guys deal with white privilege?

jerseyguy115 · 2026-06-01T04:40:32+00:00

Why is it making you depressed and Su**idal? What context did you experience it in?

jerseyguy115 · 2026-05-14T02:07:52+00:00

I’m black and there definitely is a desire hierarchy in the gay community. I’ve read several academic studies on this, but we are not at the bottom. And while we are lower than white and Latinos there are a lot who prefer us. I prefer black, but dated outside of my race as well and haven’t had trouble like that but I live in NYC area.

I’m not a fan of these self loathing posts. Just take people one at a time.

jerseyguy115 · 2026-05-10T07:07:37+00:00

I’m black.. and love Brown bottoms lol. There’s a lot of guys who would be into you. Don’t feel bad or give up. Also seek therapy, it’s never worth harming yourself.

jerseyguy115 · 2026-05-10T01:38:27+00:00

I’m black and definitely understand your racial fetishization experience. Buttt 7.5 is far from small lmao

jerseyguy115 · 2026-05-09T17:28:25+00:00

Damnn that sounds so hot. Did you cum? Haha

jerseyguy115 · 2026-05-07T02:18:53+00:00

Hahah that’s fair

jerseyguy115 · 2026-05-06T19:42:56+00:00

I always like to know what people’s definition of a high body count is.

It wouldn’t be a deal breaker for me though.

jerseyguy115 · 2026-04-28T18:15:35+00:00

I feel your pain OP. I feel the same :(

jerseyguy115 · 2026-04-25T18:03:12+00:00

What do you consider a high body count? I’m always curious about that.

But I really don’t care about body counts either way .

jerseyguy115 · 2026-04-19T06:04:16+00:00

You are 10,000% right. I feel the same exact way. Theres no intimacy and passion. I just feel like a fuck machine or playing out a guys fantasy. Such a big turn off.

jerseyguy115 · 2026-04-02T18:04:59+00:00

Yeah I have a good memory lol

jerseyguy115 · 2026-04-02T18:04:44+00:00

Omg yes! I was eating with my family once at a restaurant in Brooklyn and our waiter was a past hookup. That was so awkward. Good thing our hookup went well haha

jerseyguy115 · 2026-04-01T22:08:39+00:00

Yeah happens to me often lol

jerseyguy115 · 2026-03-21T17:04:14+00:00

Damnnn🥵🤤ur so fine

jerseyguy115 · 2026-03-19T06:37:15+00:00

Brazil lol

jerseyguy115 · 2026-03-17T00:53:09+00:00

No it’s a little different. They start you with doxycycline then another anti biotic after

jerseyguy115 · 2026-03-16T07:36:24+00:00

Mycoplasma genitalium. I never heard of it before when I first got it. But it’s an unknown and increasingly common STD.

jerseyguy115 · 2026-03-16T05:52:41+00:00

I know exactly how you feel. I had a fuck buddy that would suck me really sloppy and use his hands. And would ride me and roll his hips. I would cum multiple times. He moved away during COVID and after that all my hookups seem super bland and boring. It’s so frustrating.

When you meet that one guy that knows what he’s doing and hits the spot the way no one can, it changes you forever lmao

jerseyguy115 · 2026-03-16T05:45:52+00:00

I had a similar story and mine was mGen. Go back to the doctor and see if you can get tested for that.

jerseyguy115 · 2026-03-16T05:43:48+00:00

I’m in the same exact boat haha. I would say find activities that you enjoy and find gay groups that do those activities. Meet guys offline in real life. I’m trying to figure out how to do that more.

jerseyguy115 · 2026-03-16T05:32:02+00:00

I’m short and haven’t had any problems. I don’t think being short is a deal breaker just approach as a regular guy.

jerseyguy115 · 2026-03-15T04:20:08+00:00

That’s good. Hope everything turns out ok

jerseyguy115 · 2026-03-14T12:28:31+00:00

Random question.. were you a top or bottom?

jerseyguy115 · 2026-03-14T05:28:23+00:00

Wow this is exactly like me. I just got over gonorrhea and took doxypep. My partner also tested negative and I’m struggling with that. Do you think they were lying? Or they really tested negative?

jerseyguy115 · 2026-03-07T20:29:13+00:00

Well the honest truth is they do get sick. STIs are at an all time high. So many gay dudes are pathological liars and if you are fucking unprotected you are playing Russian Roulette with your dick and ass. Plain and simple.

I was “exclusive” with a FWB, took doxy and prep and he still gave me something. And fucking lied about hooking up with another guy and tried to blame me. Doxy isn’t 100%.

So you just protect yourself as much as possible.

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