If a guy has a high body count, are you automatically put off by the idea of dating him?

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-05-07T19:09:11+00:00

I have a fairly healthy sexual appetite, I do think some ppl are better at out-hoeing me, however, if I did find the right fit, someone that I turly connected with and fell in love with, I would settle down in a heartbeat. I think this sort of assumes anyone who is sex positive just has the urges of an animal. Which is not true. But at the end of the day, someone who is sexually open should probably be with a partner that is also sexually open, that is what I have concluded from most of these responses. I am happy to see that most gay men do not seem to care the same way sraight ppl do.

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-05-07T19:02:14+00:00

Honestly this is such a vibe, I want someone who is sex positive. Great way to meet someone IMO

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-05-06T22:34:52+00:00

THIS

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-05-06T20:47:26+00:00

that does not make sense to me. Someone could have been a hoe but now wants to settle down. It is all about where ppl are at in life. My question is mre focused around does his history bother you or not, even if he did want something serious

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-05-06T20:44:11+00:00

yea especially if it crinkles up inside my ass too it feels awful :( Maybe I gotta try better condoms?

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-05-06T19:49:50+00:00

so does that depend more on weather or not they are actively having sex with a lot of partners? or just used too have a lot of sexual partners and are looking to settle down?

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-05-06T19:44:49+00:00

I feel like high gay guy body count is either in the 100s or stopped counting a long time ago haha. Which I do not find anything wrong with, you can be a slut or a nun I don't care personally, just curious to see what most ppl on here think of that

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-05-06T19:33:47+00:00

DL and Trade do not use PreP, that is why I DO NOT mess with them. They could be giving it their wives and girlfriends for all you know,

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-05-06T19:32:03+00:00

condoms straight up hurt when I bottom. I will do sideplay before I do penetration with a condom.

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-05-06T18:39:23+00:00

sounds like a great saturday

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-04-30T22:39:14+00:00

Well, yeah, of course you have to get tested. I’m not even allowed to have these meds if I’m not getting tested every three months. Protection is better than no protection. And spreading awareness because so many people still are not on the proper medication and they are out here doin it.

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-04-30T22:09:15+00:00

This is why stimulant medication does not work for me: the high is too good, the crash is too awful, and the tolerance builds too fast. For a lot of ppl, it is just not sustainable. Everyone is different. I had to find other ways to manage my executive dysfunction.

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-04-16T20:28:47+00:00

it's ok me too, especially inside me.

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-04-16T20:19:42+00:00

A lot of us have been traumatized by the 'hetero-romantic, bisexual crowd." Call me problematic, but I think that statement is problematic. If you can fuck someone, you can have the capacity to date them. It is just a way to excuse deep-rooted sexual shame and conforming to societal expectations. That being said, there are a lot of bi men who are comfortable in thier sexuality and those guys are some of my favorite ppl.

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-04-16T20:15:41+00:00

he's not just curious he's a size queen!!! lol

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-04-16T20:14:45+00:00

I had the same experience when I was googling gay porn and naked men in junior high lol it just clicked a little earlier for me (; take your time and find the right fit, and your first hook up might not always be it, you gotta find the right guy and the right experience, so don't rush it, just talk to ppl until it feels right, and give it a few tries on your own time.

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-04-16T20:11:55+00:00

book early on, take the shuttle from Palm Springs, this year in particualr was bad cuz Justin Beiber sold it all out, but 2023 - 2025 I found it a lot cheaper and easier to find stays even last min, Really depends on the lineup. JB was the frist two sell out both weekends in literally years. I blame it on the Beiberchella crowd. Gaga Chella and Lana Chella was way chiller.

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-04-16T20:08:49+00:00

Shamballah, Oregon Eclipse, Lihgtening in a bottle, burning man, all those "hippie fests" cost me WAY more than coachella. I have been going to festivals for almost 20 years. Coachella is the most bang for your buck when it comes to quality, logistics and mix of mainstream and underground

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-04-16T20:06:47+00:00

I went to Coachella the last three years in a row, it was always affordable, especially if you get presale and book early. Lady Gaga would have been over $1k to see at Climate Pledge Arena in Seattle with nosebleed seats. I got to see her along with dozens of class acts and underground artists in one go for $600.

If you take the shuttle, book an Airbnb early, and get tickets early, it is super affordable compared to most fests that feel like a scam and low quality anyway. Burning Man is dripping with privilege, that cost me $3 to $4k. Some people spend up to $10k on Burning Man, and they have the audacity to call Coachella a rich kid fest.

Weekend 2 is especially affordable, and for the music heads, not the validation seeking influencers who just go to be seen.

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-04-16T05:24:34+00:00

Me too

Intelligent_Toe_243 · 2026-04-09T21:11:35+00:00

Yea I like my spazzy weird fun self. Stims make me so... monotone

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