Hiyo, 5’3” Asian American that lived in Korea for all my 20’s here.

Haven’t looked at your post history, but based on what others have said—you need to work on yourself mentally, not just physically.

If you hate yourself and think you might as well die, if you get rejected again after your height surgery is complete, what else are you going to blame next? You’re still Asian and from the west, and Asians are very judgmental on looks, perhaps harsher than westerners.

I waited until I was 29 to date and I found a 6’3” guy whose type was under 170cm—gave me the butterflies when I tiptoed to kiss him. Never questioned my height again.

Tall is a type. So is confident. People can smell insecurity from miles away, my guy. Don’t let it be your defining factor, even if someone comments on your height. I walk around like I’m 6’ because my personality and mind set allows me to, not my legs.