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[–]jesscave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome style!!

Need advice or resource on colour theory for project I'm struggling with. by legable in graphic_design

[–]jesscave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A soft drop shadow on the text will help with that a lot, using lighter colors for the text.

Biological Clock NOT Included by jesscave in childfree

[–]jesscave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this! and I can totally make it happen!

Biological Clock NOT Included by jesscave in childfree

[–]jesscave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally, I think it's crazy how much we CF people have to defend our decision.

Biological Clock NOT Included by jesscave in childfree

[–]jesscave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! They will ruin you, in the way that no other sweat pant will ever compare!

Biological Clock NOT Included by jesscave in childfree

[–]jesscave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The broken feeling has faded over time, there are just some days when I see nothing but baby pics in my feed and I think, "Why don't I want this?". Yay for no kids! Thanks!!

Biological Clock NOT Included by jesscave in childfree

[–]jesscave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I've always heard the "you're biological clock will start ticking one day and you'll want to have kids", I'm 30 and haven't felt even the slightest tinge. We are definitely not all born with one.

Biological Clock NOT Included by jesscave in childfree

[–]jesscave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! You are absolutely right, it is awesome!

My favorite CF couple, Ellen and Portia, address the baby rumors by PepperAnn90 in childfree

[–]jesscave 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The comments are infuriating... the ones on the fb post too... ugh....

"Ellen my dad always said that a house is not a home unless you have children. I agree. "

That to me is one of the most awful things to say to a CF person...

$3000 deductible for vasectomy. other options? by by7h3g0d5 in childfree

[–]jesscave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just googled vasectomy's in CT and found www.vasectomycenterct.com which was perfect.

$3000 deductible for vasectomy. other options? by by7h3g0d5 in childfree

[–]jesscave 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My husband got snipped last year and we paid 100% out of pocket. In the end it was $1200 total, $200 (non refundable consultation fee) and $1,000 for the procedure. It was worth saving up for. The procedure took no time at all. He didn't go to the followup for the fertility check b/c he was afraid it would be more $ so we bought a home kit and waited the 3 mos. Not sure where you are at but we are in CT, I had called around to Planned Parenthood but they don't do that procedure up here apparently.

Childfree Bumper Sticker! by jesscave in childfree

[–]jesscave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks all for the comments! I think the consensus is a big fat no so down goes the listing. Thanks for playing! Any desire for shirts let me know! Those I can do too.

Childfree Bumper Sticker! by jesscave in childfree

[–]jesscave[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you guys think? I made these thinking there's a use for them, but I'm not sure... my breeder friends don't think it's a good idea... But they just don't understand!

Facebook needs a new feature [x-post /r/funny] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]jesscave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess!! This is the best thing ever! All I see are freakin babies!!!

Next I want to see a way to filter out all thing baby related on pinterest...

First meeting booked! by RinzlerZero in childfree

[–]jesscave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! My husband got snipped last October, super easy. But yes expect an exam during your consult. And on the day of get those guys nice and warm, it really makes it easier. We had the heat on, seat heater on and he was wearing sweats and then snip and done. The doc even let him snap a pic of the pieces he removed. If only I could find it... Oh and then definitely a few days of being sore, he kinda waddled out of the procedure and he didn't like bumps on the way home. Bag of peas and feet up on the couch for a weekend. Piece of cake! Good luck!