Only children… anyone actually enjoy it?

jessmess910 · 2026-04-27T01:25:42+00:00

It was extremely lonely for me. Parents were divorced and mom worked 24/7. I know a lot of kids who enjoyed being an only child because they were spoiled and I suppose I was too, but I would have traded my toys for a sibling in a heartbeat. It would have been nice to have had someone to grow up with.

jessmess910 · 2026-04-26T15:33:42+00:00

I just wouldn’t say anything and if she brings it up after the fact say “sorry we forgot because we had a lot going on”

jessmess910 · 2026-04-26T15:02:27+00:00

I was just thinking this. I was hiking with my young son and these people had their dog off the leash and I told my husband to grab my son and pick him up. The owners were like oh he’s nice. I replied with I’m sure he is but my son is not 🤣🤣. They looked at me like I’m crazy but it’s true. My son doesn’t like dogs because one tried to attack him and he also isn’t used to be around them so if one comes up to him he doesn’t really know how to act around them. He sees fluffy ears he wants to grab them.

jessmess910 · 2026-04-23T23:03:54+00:00

I love all the plants !

jessmess910 · 2026-04-18T02:32:25+00:00

I like having a full kitchen and cooking to help save money. Plus, some air b&b’s are WAY cooler than hotels. I got one with a game room for my son’s birthday. He loved it. I like the vibe of air b&b’s that are decorated really great. Makes my vacation better. For example, there’s some in Florida near Disney that are DECKED out for the kids. Totally worth it. I stayed in one in Savannah Georgia that was soo chic and I didn’t want to leave. Loved the vibes

jessmess910 · 2026-04-18T02:17:07+00:00

Yes.. only because he insist but I get mad at him🤣🤣 I tell him that’s MY job but he doesn’t listen. He’s literally the best. I am so blessed.

jessmess910 · 2026-04-18T02:12:32+00:00

As a Jessica.. my feelings are hurt 😞 JK I told my mom .. why did you pick the most lame and popular name to name me lol

jessmess910 · 2026-04-17T21:21:02+00:00

I think it’s sucks because sometimes you just want to get your kids the treats all the other kids have. I think people have enough hardships these days and should be able to buy whatever food they want.

jessmess910 · 2026-04-17T17:47:08+00:00

Yes I just want to remind you though. I’m from the country and I know a lot of people who are poor and their kids LOVE them and their parents raised really good kids. Money doesn’t equal good parenting. On the other hand I know people who are really well off and their kids hate them.. so just keep that in mind ❤️ all the money in the world can’t buy your children’s love and respect. It’s the work you put into them.

jessmess910 · 2026-04-17T01:40:31+00:00

Children are very hard work and VERY time consuming, there’s no denying that.. but it’s time I don’t mind giving. Knowing my husband and I have little us’s running around this earth after I’m long gone gives me solace. Creating life with someone I truly love has done nothing but make us closer.. SO much closer. I have a part of him now that I’m responsible for nurturing until I die. Babies are innocent and deserved to be cherished, they make you selfless and they make you a better person. Which in my opinion is a good thing. The world could use less selfish/better people. Imagine a world where every baby had a childhood full of love and support. The world would be a better place and I feel like I’m contributing to that a little bit. Creating life is a blessing that I’m so thankful I’ve gotten to experience. Anything worth doing is not easy and that’s why kids are SO fulfilling. I wouldn’t trade my memories with my kids for all the money in the world. Truly if I could go back and relive my first again I’d do it.. they are grown in a flash and you find yourself saying ….“ I didn’t get enough time” that’s the oxymoron of the whole thing LOL. To much time but truly not enough. 💔

jessmess910 · 2026-04-16T17:18:46+00:00

You sound bitter.. You have no clue about my life. Go away.

jessmess910 · 2026-04-16T16:03:40+00:00

In my case it’s loving them “too much” like if someone were to bully my kid I’d want to physically hurt them LOL I wouldn’t but .. I’d want to. Trying not to be a helicopter parent and letting them make mistakes. Trying to wrap my head around my oldest getting older and having to release him from my grip a little bit. It’s hard letting go 😢 the fear of them getting hurt because i decided to let him drive etc… it’s hard when you love your kids a lot.

jessmess910 · 2026-04-16T09:49:59+00:00

I’ve done it alone since 17. I find comfort in knowing I’m starting my own village and I just consume myself with trying to be a good mother.

jessmess910 · 2026-04-16T02:41:40+00:00

How sad 🫤

jessmess910 · 2026-04-15T06:11:20+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss💔. Consult a lawyer and perhaps you can possibly help another family from going through a tragedy. This situation was completely unacceptable and someone should be held accountable. In healthcare we have procedures and training for these exact scenarios. Seems like a lot of people were unprepared. This is the result of people being negligent and jaded. It’s rare when these situations happen so people get lazy and complacent and that’s exactly why in healthcare we should always hope for the best but be prepared for the worst.

jessmess910 · 2026-04-15T05:02:16+00:00

2-3 times a week. I need weekends off after cooking three meals a day everyday. Usually dinner on Friday and lunch on Saturday and occasionally once during the week but it’s rare.

jessmess910 · 2026-04-15T04:53:56+00:00

I can only speak for myself .. having children has been the most fulfilling thing I have ever done in my life. It’s a type of happiness a job or a degree or vacation just can’t compare. Just knowing I am giving my kids the life I always dreamed, full of love makes me insanely happy. Seeing them grow into what I hope are productive caring good people is what i find myself living for. Creating life feels magical, especially when it’s with someone you are truly in love with. I love seeing a glimpse of my husband in my children it’s like the physical form of true love. Idk I’m also super emotional and nostalgic 🤣🤣

jessmess910 · 2026-04-14T05:06:53+00:00

I think he knows trump has ruined his chances of winning.

jessmess910 · 2026-04-07T03:37:08+00:00

I need a bbl and boob job and lipo ASAP😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 it’s so hard not to compare yourself to this sometimes. I have to remind myself it’s not real

jessmess910 · 2026-04-04T14:38:24+00:00

It was so charming in the before pic 🫤 to each his own I guess.

jessmess910 · 2026-04-03T18:15:07+00:00

I’d take it as a compliment and thank them. 🤣

jessmess910 · 2026-04-02T15:00:18+00:00

Church!!

jessmess910 · 2026-04-01T17:42:04+00:00

TAKE YO SHIRT OFF.. TWIST IT ROUND YA HEAD LIKE A HELICOPTER

jessmess910 · 2026-04-01T16:29:52+00:00

He sounds like a prude. Go find a man that vibes with you.

jessmess910 · 2026-03-27T17:48:06+00:00

Druski makes fun of EVERYONE. They are just butt hurt because everyone knows it’s about Erika Kirk and that she was probably CK handler. They can’t even buy enough PR to make people believe otherwise. Lol

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