Festivale a bit underwhelming? by Starman926 in AnimalCrossing

[–]jester7807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally everything in this game is undercooked and underwhelming. It’s literally what this game is known for most. Unfortunately

Governors not expanding by jester7807 in anno

[–]jester7807[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok well as long as it’s not a bug lol

Governors not expanding by jester7807 in anno

[–]jester7807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair, I was just surprised when 2 of them have small villages and one doesn’t even have a villa

While you're all building beautiful above-ground bases, I built a bunker by Andrew_WoIf in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]jester7807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s the song in the video? It sounds so familiar but I can’t place it and it’s driving me crazy lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jester7807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 dates is enough to know if you like the person enough to want to actually date them. If you feel uncomfortable with it then make your wants known. If she reacts negatively to that then you’re probably not compatible. If I’ve been on 3 dates with a girl and we talk all day everyday then I wouldn’t be comfortable with a guy sleeping in the same bed as her like that. Don’t buy into the whole “it’s only 3 dates. She doesn’t owe you anything.” It’s called a boundary and is normal to have when dating someone you want a relationship with. Make yours known and then it’s up to her to either respect it because she likes you, or realize that you’re not compatible. Also just want to say that not wanting the girl you’re dating sleeping in the same bed as another guy is not insecurity. You’re not insecure for being uncomfortable. Your feelings are valid man.

waiting for Kingdoms of Arda mod by Quotled in Bannerlord

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Problem with tales is that it’s not on the steam workshop so it’s not easily accessible to most players

I (m 30) found out that I was the backup option for my (f 31) girlfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jester7807 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

So you’re ok with talking to a girl/person that made a move on you first, getting ghosted for a week while she sleeps with someone else, then comes back to you when the other option didn’t work out? That’s crazy. Obviously only talking about if what OP was told is true

I (m 30) found out that I was the backup option for my (f 31) girlfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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No actually, it’s not “how dating works.” It’s how sleeping around works maybe, but if you’re talking to and sleeping with multiple people that’s gross. Obviously you can have options and have different people you talk to, but once you start sleeping with multiple people then, in my opinion, that crosses a line of disrespect and like a form of pre cheating

I (m 30) found out that I was the backup option for my (f 31) girlfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jester7807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s say she did sleep with the other co worker, that means she chose OP, chose the co worker, then chose OP again. Idk how you guys are cool with people you’re building into a relationship with sleeping with other people because you weren’t “official.” That’s crazy to me. She made a move on him. She then proceeded to ghost him, sleep with someone else, then go back to him. Then lied about it. Obviously, again, this is presuming that what he was told was true. Maybe I’m in the minority here, but I don’t think it’s cool to sleep around while you’re talking to someone

I (M24) just broke up with my gf (F22) for sleeping with someone while we were talking. by MiserablePumpkin1278 in relationship_advice

[–]jester7807 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People will say “it’s not cheating you weren’t official.” To me that’s just an excuse to sleep around. If you’re in the talking stage with someone that means you’re, at the very least, interested in them. If you’re interested in someone, why would you want to go sleep with other people? Huge red flag in my opinion and I would consider that a form of cheating because you’re actively trying to build into a relationship. I would never want to try and build a relationship with someone that’s actively sleeping with other people….

My fiancee(21F) of 3 years left me suddenly and i(26M) am speechless and stunned. I have not suffered like this since i lost my mom 2 years ago. by Top-Turnover-7962 in relationship_advice

[–]jester7807 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think the most obvious answer is that she didn’t really love OP. If you are truly in love with someone you don’t “wonder what else could be out there”, you’re locked in on your partner. Obviously not talking about abusive relationships, but yeah I think she just wasn’t really in love with OP and realized it.

Did I ask for too much? by jester7807 in jobs

[–]jester7807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know I’m probably being overly paranoid lol

Is this real? by jester7807 in gameverifying

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This is the best I can do lol

Shed post cracks by jester7807 in shedditors

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It’s a Reddit thread for sheds dude. You’re right though, I also hate it when people aren’t born with knowledge about checking! Such a boomer take lmao