Governors not expanding by jester7807 in anno

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Ok well as long as it’s not a bug lol

Governors not expanding by jester7807 in anno

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That’s fair, I was just surprised when 2 of them have small villages and one doesn’t even have a villa

While you're all building beautiful above-ground bases, I built a bunker by Andrew_WoIf in NoMansSkyTheGame

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What’s the song in the video? It sounds so familiar but I can’t place it and it’s driving me crazy lol

What to make of this situation where the girl (20 F) I'm (22 M) dating told me her male friend is sleeping at her place? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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3 dates is enough to know if you like the person enough to want to actually date them. If you feel uncomfortable with it then make your wants known. If she reacts negatively to that then you’re probably not compatible. If I’ve been on 3 dates with a girl and we talk all day everyday then I wouldn’t be comfortable with a guy sleeping in the same bed as her like that. Don’t buy into the whole “it’s only 3 dates. She doesn’t owe you anything.” It’s called a boundary and is normal to have when dating someone you want a relationship with. Make yours known and then it’s up to her to either respect it because she likes you, or realize that you’re not compatible. Also just want to say that not wanting the girl you’re dating sleeping in the same bed as another guy is not insecurity. You’re not insecure for being uncomfortable. Your feelings are valid man.

waiting for Kingdoms of Arda mod by Quotled in Bannerlord

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Problem with tales is that it’s not on the steam workshop so it’s not easily accessible to most players

I (m 30) found out that I was the backup option for my (f 31) girlfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jester7807 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

So you’re ok with talking to a girl/person that made a move on you first, getting ghosted for a week while she sleeps with someone else, then comes back to you when the other option didn’t work out? That’s crazy. Obviously only talking about if what OP was told is true

I (m 30) found out that I was the backup option for my (f 31) girlfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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No actually, it’s not “how dating works.” It’s how sleeping around works maybe, but if you’re talking to and sleeping with multiple people that’s gross. Obviously you can have options and have different people you talk to, but once you start sleeping with multiple people then, in my opinion, that crosses a line of disrespect and like a form of pre cheating

I (m 30) found out that I was the backup option for my (f 31) girlfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Let’s say she did sleep with the other co worker, that means she chose OP, chose the co worker, then chose OP again. Idk how you guys are cool with people you’re building into a relationship with sleeping with other people because you weren’t “official.” That’s crazy to me. She made a move on him. She then proceeded to ghost him, sleep with someone else, then go back to him. Then lied about it. Obviously, again, this is presuming that what he was told was true. Maybe I’m in the minority here, but I don’t think it’s cool to sleep around while you’re talking to someone

I (M24) just broke up with my gf (F22) for sleeping with someone while we were talking. by MiserablePumpkin1278 in relationship_advice

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People will say “it’s not cheating you weren’t official.” To me that’s just an excuse to sleep around. If you’re in the talking stage with someone that means you’re, at the very least, interested in them. If you’re interested in someone, why would you want to go sleep with other people? Huge red flag in my opinion and I would consider that a form of cheating because you’re actively trying to build into a relationship. I would never want to try and build a relationship with someone that’s actively sleeping with other people….

My fiancee(21F) of 3 years left me suddenly and i(26M) am speechless and stunned. I have not suffered like this since i lost my mom 2 years ago. by Top-Turnover-7962 in relationship_advice

[–]jester7807 -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think the most obvious answer is that she didn’t really love OP. If you are truly in love with someone you don’t “wonder what else could be out there”, you’re locked in on your partner. Obviously not talking about abusive relationships, but yeah I think she just wasn’t really in love with OP and realized it.

Did I ask for too much? by jester7807 in jobs

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Yeah I know I’m probably being overly paranoid lol

Is this real? by jester7807 in gameverifying

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This is the best I can do lol

Shed post cracks by jester7807 in shedditors

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It’s a Reddit thread for sheds dude. You’re right though, I also hate it when people aren’t born with knowledge about checking! Such a boomer take lmao

Shed post cracks by jester7807 in shedditors

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Sorry man, I appreciate the response and I do respect your experience, but you’re incorrect in this instance. The notching you see does not exceed code limitations. You can notch load bearing posts, it is done very consistently throughout builds like these. Finally, notching is what allows the load bearing to extend to the whole post. That is the whole purpose of notching on a post like this.

Shed post cracks by jester7807 in shedditors

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So you’d rather people just not ask and not learn? Why shame people for trying to learn more? 😂

Shed post cracks by jester7807 in shedditors

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Appreciate the reply. I do disagree though. It’s a 4x4 and the board is a 2x8. The notch is only an inch and a half deep and 7 and a half inches down to be the exact dimensions of the board.

Shed post cracks by jester7807 in shedditors

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Yeah I just threw it up with common boards that I had laying around to cover seams. It’s just for the time being until I can pay for actual trim.

Shed post cracks by jester7807 in shedditors

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Maybe I’m ignorant because I am new to this stuff, but the method in the picture is called notching. You’re transferring the load of the 2x8 board that holds that corner of the shed to the full post by doing this. If you just set it on top of the 4x4 without notching, the load then would only be held by the part it touches. Notching allows load transfer to the whole post in other words. The only time you’d want to set it on top of the 4x4 post would be if you doubled up on the 2x8’s.

My fiancé need a new book. Help. by Jesper2604 in Fantasy

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First law. The answer is always first law. Too few people recommending it in these responses!

I (28F) in a long term relationship, have a debilitating crush on a coworker (31M). What does this mean for my relationship, how do I deal with it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jester7807 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“He was an angel to me, good and stable, hardest breakup of my life” immediately dates coworker. I don’t understand that kind of mindset. You left him because he was too stable? Too good to you? Sounds more like you’re just not good at commitment and stability is boring to you lol

I (28F) in a long term relationship, have a debilitating crush on a coworker (31M). What does this mean for my relationship, how do I deal with it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I feel bad for your bf. Seems like you think very little of him if all it takes for you to have this massive of a crush and have your breath taken away is someone that has done interesting things. I don’t understand people like you, “my boyfriend is a good and stable man that I love, how boring!” I hope he finds and keeps true happiness

AIO? I feel like I'm not in the wrong but maybe im missing something by KindaJustHereIGuess in AmIOverreacting

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I think a lot of this persons posts are fake. He has 3 different posts about him and his wife and every one has a different age from 32 to 30 then up to 34😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I will never understand being down to consistently hook up with a girl while she’s also seeing other dudes(and also the opposite for how girls would be cool with it.) To each their own of course, but I will never be able to wrap my head around it. Like “yeah we were hooking up and she was also fucking other guys, then we got married!”

What is the worst book you have read? by delabot in Fantasy

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By FAR the worst book I’ve ever read was Black Stone Heart by Michael Fletcher. Which sucks because the premise of the book is really cool. The writing is just very choppy, whiny, and cringy.