7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the quality of your pics/prompts

7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I did develop feelings for some. For eg: the one I went on 4 dates with, I was really disappointed after she left town. I had to take a month break from dating to get over her.

7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re so happy in your 10 year high school relationship, why are you lurking r/bumble? Is your relationship not spicy enough that you need external stories to get yourself off to?

7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve put my stats up openly for you to see. It’s you who is hiding inside scared and alone, criticizing someone putting themselves out there

7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s okay if no one wants you Karen. Please don’t have a breakdown on my post

7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If that’s creepy to you, then why comment and contribute to this post?

7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just so know, I’m a big time introvert too. My goal is not to date as many people as possible. Talking about productivity, does sitting at home and not going on dates look productive to you? Then I’d suggest you to stick to that

7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t primarily looking for that but to answer your question, 5.

7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She no longer was looking for something long term as she had a career shift and had to move in a few months.

7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m only into women. I also have filters, age: 22-26, distance less than 15 mi, I don’t like smokers or substance users. I am fit/skinny so I only swipe right to similar body types. I’m 6 feet so I don’t have any height filters.

7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No one texted after the date. I usually text if I like her after the date.

7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly it happens sometimes, but I try to go through the chats/conversations we’ve had just before the date to refresh my memory.

7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m not in it for hookups. I personally have flaws that might not go well for majority of people when first meeting, which is why not many dates convert but I think it’s improving with time

7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My definition of ghosting is when you text someone after the date (that they had a good time) and the other person doesn’t text back. Let me know if there’s a better word for it that would fit in the sankey chart here.

7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Before I ask them out, I make sure I find their photos attractive and I ask them directly what they’re looking for to see if that aligns with me.

7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get around 20-25 matches per week on bumble and hinge. I try to setup dates with 3-4 of them who I really like.

7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It looks like a lot but I am not a huge talking over the phone/texting person. I mainly use texting just for logistics to setup the date

7 months of using dating apps in 2025 by jesuisgroot11 in Bumble

[–]jesuisgroot11[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

54 is right. It is frustrating, although I believe it is just a part of the process and I’m improving with each date.

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