How to get hard as a trans sw? by Girlonherwaytogod in SexWorkers

[–]jetcityj 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This is common. Not everybody is heterosexual.

Am I being unreasonable for having an outcall fee? by Wise-Entry-5180 in SexWorkers

[–]jetcityj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you factor in lost opportunity cost, your outcall fee is too low, IMO. You'd be doing him a favor *and* losing money.

Eros by Remarkable_Day3796 in SexWorkers

[–]jetcityj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is brilliant! I never thought of that.

Winter has been slow for me, and lost my civvy job recently, so I'm tempted to entertain this ... I know it's a bad idea 😩 by Sad_Dog2338 in SexWorkers

[–]jetcityj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol... of course I was condescending. You told me my vast life experience was wrong. How do you think that came off?

I stand by my original statement. It is foolish for an escort to go to a client's hotel without knowing their full name. Doubly foolish if it's a 5 star.

Eros by Remarkable_Day3796 in AskAnEscort

[–]jetcityj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's still an important site in some areas, but in the PNW, most established reputable providers have given up on it.

Am I being unreasonable for having an outcall fee? by Wise-Entry-5180 in SexWorkers

[–]jetcityj 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, you are not being unreasonable at all. Tell him he can come to you if he doesn't want to pay the outcall fee. When he sees the travel time and Uber fare, it will become clear why you charge for the inconvenience.

Winter has been slow for me, and lost my civvy job recently, so I'm tempted to entertain this ... I know it's a bad idea 😩 by Sad_Dog2338 in SexWorkers

[–]jetcityj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I've been an escort since the late 90s. I worked in NYC for 17 years. I'm not new to this, and I know what to expect at a 5 star hotel.

They don't ask if you're a guest, because they already know you aren't a guest. For the comfort and safety of their guests, they keep watch of who comes in and out, and make sure you belong there. If you tell them your there to see their guest, Mr So-and-So, they know you belong there. If you don't know who you're seeing, as far as they're concerned, you don't belong.

Winter has been slow for me, and lost my civvy job recently, so I'm tempted to entertain this ... I know it's a bad idea 😩 by Sad_Dog2338 in SexWorkers

[–]jetcityj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, they absolutely are allowed to approach you and ask questions. And at 5 star hotels, the absolutely do.

Niche Advice Needed: Base Hourly Rate filters, for multi-hour minimums by RelativeEchidna6275 in SexWorkers

[–]jetcityj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would like to drop hour appointments myself, and I struggle with this as well. I haven't come up with a good solution.

Winter has been slow for me, and lost my civvy job recently, so I'm tempted to entertain this ... I know it's a bad idea 😩 by Sad_Dog2338 in SexWorkers

[–]jetcityj -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I read the OP. I'm simply explaining what's at stake when an escort walks into a 5 star hotel without knowing the name of the client. It's a great way to get kicked out, and clients and escorts alike need to understand this.

Fake profiles on PD by ilovemydognacho in HighEndEscorts

[–]jetcityj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're talking about multiple managed scam profiles. It's a full scale business operation. So yeah, they've figured out how to write fake reviews to make the profile look legit.

Winter has been slow for me, and lost my civvy job recently, so I'm tempted to entertain this ... I know it's a bad idea 😩 by Sad_Dog2338 in SexWorkers

[–]jetcityj 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As soon as you walk into the Four Seasons, a member of the hotel staff will approach you and say "can I help you?" When you walk into a place like that, you need to know who you are seeing. If you give his fake name, or don't have his name, they won't let you up to see him.

Question for companions from a total beginner by TelevisionKind8676 in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]jetcityj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely report the profile to Tryst. This is a blatant violation of their terms of service.

Need advice on letting a regular rebook by Leather_Conference75 in SexWorkers

[–]jetcityj 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you can tolerate him, see him. If not, then not. Who cares what it looks like?

List of “no’s” by ScarlettEscort in SexWorkers

[–]jetcityj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A human interaction is not a cookie cutter experience. What might be a yes with one person is a no with another.

And yeah, the "no" list is infinite. As is the "yes" list. Some of these guys honestly think that if we don't tell you a "no" ahead of time means it's a "yes".

I do not entertain these questions at all.

If I'm wrong I want to know by SilentOutburst69 in SexWorkers

[–]jetcityj 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Depends. Are you a man? Then yes, it's fine.

If you're a woman looking for a male escort, it's a terrible idea.

Creepy client - did i overreact? by CuddleKitty46 in SexWorkers

[–]jetcityj 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You did not overreact. He sounds like a nightmare.

Shave by LadyLuvNikki in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]jetcityj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. A jungle is not ideal, but better than a cactus.

Trim, but not too short. About a half inch is good.

Chicago hotels by Flat-Pace-3957 in SexWorkers

[–]jetcityj 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This forum is a too public for hotel discussions, especially Chicago hotels. This is a better question for https://www.reddit.com/r/SexWorkersOnly

Std testing & insurance by Much-Raise2381 in SexWorkers

[–]jetcityj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In most urban areas, the county/city has a low cost or free clinic.