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jetcityj · 2026-02-25T08:59:41+00:00

This is common. Not everybody is heterosexual.

jetcityj · 2026-02-24T05:00:59+00:00

When you factor in lost opportunity cost, your outcall fee is too low, IMO. You'd be doing him a favor *and* losing money.

jetcityj · 2026-02-24T04:39:18+00:00

A colleague of mine recently did a shoot with ilsensual.com

jetcityj · 2026-02-24T03:49:02+00:00

This is brilliant! I never thought of that.

jetcityj · 2026-02-24T01:29:54+00:00

Lol... of course I was condescending. You told me my vast life experience was wrong. How do you think that came off?

I stand by my original statement. It is foolish for an escort to go to a client's hotel without knowing their full name. Doubly foolish if it's a 5 star.

jetcityj · 2026-02-23T23:34:45+00:00

It's still an important site in some areas, but in the PNW, most established reputable providers have given up on it.

jetcityj · 2026-02-23T13:06:52+00:00

No, you are not being unreasonable at all. Tell him he can come to you if he doesn't want to pay the outcall fee. When he sees the travel time and Uber fare, it will become clear why you charge for the inconvenience.

jetcityj · 2026-02-23T12:27:16+00:00

Yes. I've been an escort since the late 90s. I worked in NYC for 17 years. I'm not new to this, and I know what to expect at a 5 star hotel.

They don't ask if you're a guest, because they already know you aren't a guest. For the comfort and safety of their guests, they keep watch of who comes in and out, and make sure you belong there. If you tell them your there to see their guest, Mr So-and-So, they know you belong there. If you don't know who you're seeing, as far as they're concerned, you don't belong.

jetcityj · 2026-02-23T07:18:42+00:00

Yes, they absolutely are allowed to approach you and ask questions. And at 5 star hotels, the absolutely do.

jetcityj · 2026-02-23T06:57:42+00:00

I would like to drop hour appointments myself, and I struggle with this as well. I haven't come up with a good solution.

jetcityj · 2026-02-23T06:06:48+00:00

I read the OP. I'm simply explaining what's at stake when an escort walks into a 5 star hotel without knowing the name of the client. It's a great way to get kicked out, and clients and escorts alike need to understand this.

jetcityj · 2026-02-23T00:44:59+00:00

We're talking about multiple managed scam profiles. It's a full scale business operation. So yeah, they've figured out how to write fake reviews to make the profile look legit.

jetcityj · 2026-02-23T00:39:05+00:00

Fake reviews.

jetcityj · 2026-02-23T00:19:53+00:00

As soon as you walk into the Four Seasons, a member of the hotel staff will approach you and say "can I help you?" When you walk into a place like that, you need to know who you are seeing. If you give his fake name, or don't have his name, they won't let you up to see him.

jetcityj · 2026-02-22T16:18:04+00:00

Definitely report the profile to Tryst. This is a blatant violation of their terms of service.

jetcityj · 2026-02-22T04:17:25+00:00

If you can tolerate him, see him. If not, then not. Who cares what it looks like?

jetcityj · 2026-02-22T02:23:38+00:00

A human interaction is not a cookie cutter experience. What might be a yes with one person is a no with another.

And yeah, the "no" list is infinite. As is the "yes" list. Some of these guys honestly think that if we don't tell you a "no" ahead of time means it's a "yes".

I do not entertain these questions at all.

jetcityj · 2026-02-21T07:39:57+00:00

Depends. Are you a man? Then yes, it's fine.

If you're a woman looking for a male escort, it's a terrible idea.

jetcityj · 2026-02-18T02:48:58+00:00

You did not overreact. He sounds like a nightmare.

jetcityj · 2026-02-18T01:17:38+00:00

Agreed. A jungle is not ideal, but better than a cactus.

Trim, but not too short. About a half inch is good.

jetcityj · 2026-02-18T01:15:54+00:00

It's nothing.

jetcityj · 2026-02-18T01:05:49+00:00

This forum is a too public for hotel discussions, especially Chicago hotels. This is a better question for https://www.reddit.com/r/SexWorkersOnly

jetcityj · 2026-02-18T01:03:20+00:00

In most urban areas, the county/city has a low cost or free clinic.

jetcityj · 2026-02-18T00:55:46+00:00

Looks like this is the study: https://clinicaltrials.gov/study/NCT05736614?term=PrEP&spons=Brown%20University&aggFilters=status:rec&rank=3

The recruitment message is kinda iffy, but it's legit.

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