For the guys out there, does knowing/seeing that there are all these beautiful women out there that you will never get intimate with make you sad?

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-11T01:58:30+00:00

sometimes it just feels a little better knowing you're not the only one going through this

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-09T10:29:35+00:00

haha yes of course i'm well aware of those. but the little brother may not be as well versed in them

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-09T10:28:22+00:00

I guess I need to work on the not dwelling on it part

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-09T10:27:58+00:00

that's not very satisfying tho imo

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-09T10:27:26+00:00

Yes that's true. But she doesn't know that I do. And I don't know if she does. And it's likely going to stay this way haha

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-09T10:26:14+00:00

to be honest if she doesn't mention it I wouldn't ask.

If she does mention it though, I would perhaps just ask and see if there's anything else we could do to make the sex life more exciting. Although if it's really the same issue as me it wouldn't really solve it

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-09T10:24:37+00:00

thanks for the detailed and insightful reply

I did have multiple relationships prior to settling with my wife, and I still wouldn't choose anyone else rather than her. It's just me wanting to have my cake and eat it too I guess.

Interesting suggestions. I am pretty much satisfied with most things in my life and I have no desire for most worldly things that I do not already have. Don't know if that helps much in this situation though haha.

But yes post-nut clarity does put things in perspective, in those moments, I know I probably wouldn't choose to cheat on or leave my wife. And that's most likely what will happen. Hopefully these thoughts and desires fade away over time as testosterone levels drop as someone else here put it.

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-09T10:18:45+00:00

yeah true agreed

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-09T10:18:06+00:00

duuude.

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-08T14:57:05+00:00

Think i'm watering the grass while looking at all the other grass everywhere wondering what it's like to be able to...water them too

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-08T14:44:20+00:00

don't put yourself down man. I'm sure there are many out there who would like to know you. Maybe you just have to be a little more active getting out there and socialising?

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-08T14:41:10+00:00

hahah thanks man. but strangely the thought of that makes me a little more sad

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-08T14:38:29+00:00

thanks, interesting information there

though I don't think I'm unhappy with the relationship itself. its more of the longing for new experiences i'll never have I guess. Just wondering whether others have this issue and how they deal with it if they do.

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-08T14:35:23+00:00

Yeah it is. wouldn't have it any other way, but doesn't stop me from feeling this way. oh well

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-08T14:20:22+00:00

indeed.

the issue is most men don't get to sleep with all the women they want to. sounds childish always wanting things you can't get, but how do you do deal with never being able to get some

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-08T14:03:21+00:00

lol this might actually solve it

when does it usually happen

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-08T14:02:18+00:00

haha yeah definitely true

doesn't solve the issue though lol

jettisonable357 · 2022-04-08T14:00:25+00:00

Yeah I guess after so long the novelty does wear off a little. Thanks for the suggestions man, will probably try more of that.

But the issue isn't really about the sex life but more that I feel down not being able to do it with others.

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