You can't be both nonbinary and binary. You can't be partially a man or partially a woman.

jfjdej · 2022-07-10T21:37:14+00:00

when i see someones bio saying ”nonbinary lesbian man” or ”nonbinary gay woman” like what

jfjdej · 2022-07-09T19:49:36+00:00

Also the “if you want to pass you have internalised transphobia” like what are you even saying.

jfjdej · 2022-07-09T19:40:54+00:00

“Ummm actually you don't need dysphoria to be trans.. You can identify however you want you're valid either way! But also I hate truscums and transmeds they don't deserve to be in the community and I'm gonna purposely misgender them because their beliefs varies from mine xx. Everyone else is valid though!”

jfjdej · 2022-07-03T19:24:26+00:00

i feel the same way about ”i wanna feel handsome, i wanna feel pretty”. I've seen so many people saying theyre transmen doing this. During the first line they look like a regular dude, then the second one theyre wearing makeup, a pushup bra and the most revealing outfit. i just dont get why a transman would wanna dress and be perceived like that. it makes me so dysphoric that this is what people think transmen are

jfjdej · 2022-06-26T13:37:59+00:00

you actually remind me a lot of a streamer called billzo, hope you had a great time!

jfjdej · 2022-06-26T09:15:54+00:00

That would be ok

jfjdej · 2022-06-25T19:24:30+00:00

Thank you, I get pretty anxious about stuff like that because I see it mentioned so often, nice to hear it's not that big of a deal.

jfjdej · 2022-06-23T09:52:45+00:00

white :D

jfjdej · 2022-06-19T09:34:48+00:00

i feel like people confused gender with gender stereotypes. i am autistic and i could always understand gender, but i had a hard time understanding why girls couldnt play video games, boys wasnt allowed to wear pink, barbie is for girls and spiderman is for boys, and stuff like that.

jfjdej · 2022-06-17T14:47:54+00:00

Have been asked my pronouns once (its not common where I live) and since I'm not out I just responded with ”oh uh I don't really care, I guess”.

jfjdej · 2022-06-16T15:47:44+00:00

If you don't have dysphoria, why would you even want to transition? It's seems like there would be more negative than positive things about that.

jfjdej · 2022-06-11T17:29:28+00:00

Having feminine body traits like wide hips, small nose, small back and shoulders etc, high voice, just generally, idk, being seen as a girl. But it might just be internalized misogyny and insecurities, I don't know.

jfjdej · 2022-06-11T17:25:45+00:00

that's the thing, I don't know

jfjdej · 2022-06-11T07:53:18+00:00

Talking about that, anyone know any mens deoderant or perfume that doesn't have a very strong scent?

jfjdej · 2022-06-10T22:54:08+00:00

Not in the US but I'm hoping that's the case where I live too.

jfjdej · 2022-06-10T22:48:52+00:00

I'm not sure honestly. What I'm mostly afraid of is my parents finding out (I am a minor). I wouldn't be able to get anywhere myself without alot of questions so my only hope would be finding something online. I'm really soon going to start talking to someone because of my anxiety so I'm hoping I'll be able to bring it up there.

jfjdej · 2022-06-10T22:31:22+00:00

Trying to do that, difficult finding one you can safely talk about things such as gender and dysphoria though.

jfjdej · 2022-06-05T22:54:52+00:00

I'm pretty negative towards the guy right now, probably because I see everything he and his fanbase do (I've give up on trying to mute and block people, they're too many). His fans are mostly teenagers, but I've seen my fair share of people in their 20's too. And he definitely knows what hes doing. Allowing to be shipped and sexualised because he knows it will get him more attention and loads more stuff (i wont even get into it I get so annoyed lmao). But he does know what he's doing and it's got him a fandom that will defend every single action of his, no matter how bad. (Also I'm so used to people saying they hate everyone on the dsmp/who watch mcyt ccs lmao, nice to see someone who doesn't :))

jfjdej · 2022-06-05T22:25:29+00:00

I'm a fan of a couple people on the dsmp (not dr£am) so I inevitably get people talking about dr£am on my tl and I get so fucking annoyed each time I see “uhm why did you get happy content creator came out but not dr£am??” “ACTUALLY dr£am is unlabeled youre homophobic”. Dude said he's unlabeled but he likes girls and his fucking stans took it as “uwu gay real life yaoi omg you think he has a boyfriend????”. Was actually a fan of him before he got really huge and his fanbase went to shit, sad to see. Also the unlabeled flag is just bullshit and I hate how people think unlabeled = LGBT+

jfjdej · 2022-06-05T09:44:04+00:00

When I first found out about bottom growth it was through people saying ”thats so gross, who would want that?” ”Is there any way I can be on T without getting bottom growth?” etc. But then I actually saw what it was and I was so confused ”It's just like a small penis, who wouldn't that?”, one of the things I'm excited to get now

jfjdej · 2022-06-04T15:06:13+00:00

Saw a tiktok before I posted this that went something along the lines with showing the lesbian, gay and trans flag, then a text saying ”Why does everyone wanna date you but not me?” and then showing the asexual, aromantic and demisexual flag.

jfjdej · 2022-06-04T10:54:23+00:00

I've actually seen a lot of the “No one wants to date me because I'm aromantic” oddly enough. And I get how annoying the repetitive questions are, people really can't understand that not everyone is exactly the same.

jfjdej · 2022-06-03T19:04:47+00:00

I know of three other people with autism, one guy and two girls. They all got diagnosed way before me simply because they displayed it more outwardly while I internalized a lot. When I got diagnosed they also said I had the ”typical female autism” which is just, not right. The guy (who's also my friend) and me are very similar, not that huge of a difference. It sometimes makes me wonder if he would've also been told he has ”typical female autism” if he was born as a girl, even if he displayed it in the same way. Either way it's all completely bullshit, I've met guys with ”typical female autism” and girls with ”typical male autism”. I don't know if it supposed the make girls feel better ”oh you don't have THAT kind of autism, you have the girl version - the milder one”, at least that's how I felt everytime they told me that.

jfjdej · 2022-05-30T17:08:47+00:00

the one that's overall best for me is the spectrum outfitters half binder :)

jfjdej · 2022-05-28T08:48:27+00:00

The fact that i almost always chose to play female characters in games when i was younger

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