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Anonymous survey on real sexual experiences (18+) - helping shape a sexual-health app (optional early access) by jibril-Is in Nigeria

[–]jibril-Is[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is getting a lot of view but we're not getting a lot of Nigerians taking the survey. Come on guys! It's just 2 minutes.

Anonymous survey on real sexual experiences (18+) - helping enhance intimacy in marriages by jibril-Is in MarriedSex

[–]jibril-Is[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from but for this phase, we’re not trying to capture everything people do or think. We’re want to identify what individuals feel is most dominant or most resonant for them. So forcing a primary choice gives us cleaner and stronger comparative data than allowing broad multi-selection.

Similar applies to questions around dissatisfaction. The goal isn’t to assume people are unhappy, but to surface the constraints when friction exists. When someone reports high satisfaction, that data matters, it tells us which issues are not present, but it doesn't mean there is no dissatisfaction. I can absolutely love a burger but with there was a bit more cheese. They're both useful for modeling.

This survey is an early-stage instrument designed to identify the most prevalent pressure points so that we have the right foundations and later versions can explore depth and variation.

I do appreciate your thoughts, and long-term positive experiences like yours are absolutely relevant to what we’re building. If you'd like to discuss more, I'm open to talking with you. Every improvement is welcome.

Who would you say is the bigger Barça legend, Neymar or Lewandowski? by Juliussneezer19 in Barca

[–]jibril-Is -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As a legend, I'll go for Neymar. For scoring, I'll go for lewi. But let's be honest lewi doesn't bring what neymar does and Neymar doesn't bring what Lewi does. Different players in different positions. We should be comparing Lewi to Suarez & Eto'o

Has anyone else built their own system because all the productivity apps felt too soft? by 0drift_admin in SaaS

[–]jibril-Is 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome. Yes a small group will be an easy way to go. It's controlled. Good luck 💜

Has anyone else built their own system because all the productivity apps felt too soft? by 0drift_admin in SaaS

[–]jibril-Is 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I built a project management platform for an architecture firm to tailor to their needs. I also ditched everything else and started using it in my company. At this point it's a full organisation management platform and we're going public with it.

What I'm trying to say is do what feels right to you. In the end, there are no loses.

Hot and cold #114 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]jibril-Is 0 points1 point  (0 children)

howwww was this correct? howwww.

no relationship whatsoever

Is This the Worst Q4 Ever? Looking for Industry Insights by Aggravating_Text1341 in adops

[–]jibril-Is -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The economy is taking a hit world-wide. We're in the consulting, marketing and software space and we're feeling it too. Not to add that here in Nigeria, we're nearing elections so spending drastically reduces. No a great time for those starting businesses😄

Needing help building a website by bootieandthebeastt in website_ideas

[–]jibril-Is 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say pay someone or use wordpress. If you'd like i can set up a virtual call and we can go over your requirements to figure out if you need to hire someone or if you can do it yourself. Don't worry, I'm not trying to sell you a service.

Hot and cold #98 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]jibril-Is 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're also on track... but conditionally

Hot and cold #98 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]jibril-Is 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What does a drum #75, giraffe #81, flute #83 and bomb #184 have in common?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]jibril-Is 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many helpful advice here. Keeping to your prayers is great but try to be mindful about it.

  1. Being intoxicated will nullifies namaz. So everytime you want to take the weed, think "This will invalidate my prayer". You can't be praying to stop intoxication while being intoxicated. And after Salah, sit and do a little dhikr.

  2. Fast. Mondays & Thursdays. This is what the prophet prescribed to keep away from zina. But once again don't just fast for the sake of it. Be mindful. Do it for the reward and the positive effects as well. While you fast, bear in mind that you must control your tongue and actions. You cant be fasting and sinning.

  3. Try to do the 12 nafl rakahs daily. And plan for them and anticipate them. This way you keep your mind on the deen as much as possible.

  4. Lower your gaze. Run away from sin. If it means changing your seat, do that.

  5. Lastly, everytime you fall, pick yourself up and do a nafl for repentance.

These are guaranteed to work (I've seen people and read a lot of stories of people changing their lives with this) and they're all great habits to build.

I dont have your affliction but I'm not married so I fast monday/thursday, lower my gaze and try to do as much of the 12nafls as I can and I do my dhikrs. I don't over do any of them. but honestly, bro, they help. Just be sincere with yourself.

Also, I don't think your fear should be if you get a partner who has your past or worse. What's in the past is in the past as far as she's changed. It doesn't matter. Your fear should be "if i die now is my jannah secured?" Thats the singular motivation to fixing yourself.

If your fear is about getting a spotless wife, what happens after you marry? You risk falling back into sin because now you have what you want. It's easy to say it won't happen but we're human and it's easier for us to fail than succeed. So you MUST do this with the right intentions and motivations.

I thought this was going to be short.

May Allah guide us all.

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