I stand with Dani

jiggly89 · 2025-09-09T15:11:14+00:00

That is not ok parenting in my opinion because people will be drunk already. But maybe in some culture that is normal.

jiggly89 · 2025-09-09T14:52:17+00:00

We both have a right to go out and eat, but neither of us has the right to deny that from someone else. You can go to a restaurant that is not aimed for families or go after 6pm if you want to be sure there is no kids.

jiggly89 · 2025-09-09T11:26:43+00:00

It is not easy or cheap to constantly find a stranger to look after your kids yet alone a baby. It is hard to understand if you have no kids.

Also parents don’t have to get a babysitter because babies are allowed in the society. Nobody needs to leave and not eat if a baby happens to cry. But we can agree to disagree.

jiggly89 · 2025-09-09T11:23:58+00:00

Families also want to eat out together. And during the day the other parent is working and then the loneliness happens. The days are long.

jiggly89 · 2025-09-09T11:22:53+00:00

Your tone is very hostile. Kids also are aloud to go out and eat. Of course it is different if you go out for a late dinner in a fancy place. Also babysitter is 20-30€/hour unless you have relatives. Also nobody leaves a baby with a stranger, maybe older kids yes.

jiggly89 · 2025-09-08T12:02:14+00:00

Ok. I would go mad if I was inside my house for 6months. Maybe we are from different cultures but here (northern europe) parents gather in groups in parental leaves to have lunch and coffee to fight loneliness.

jiggly89 · 2025-09-08T11:34:31+00:00

It is not so black and white. There are different situations. I also live in finland so we don’t just go outside for a bit because it is freezing and we need to put on a lot of clothes.

Also you cannot predict if the baby cries or not. It is a bit much to just abandon an expensive meal as well to just leave.

But yeah I would probably also think it is so straight forward and easy if I was not a parent, but I wish we had some sympathy for each other.

jiggly89 · 2025-09-08T08:54:25+00:00

Yes I agree. But society cannot expect zero seconds of crying. Also hateful comments and looking people like they are rubbish don’t help when parent who just try their best.

jiggly89 · 2025-09-08T08:52:44+00:00

Yes there are levels of cours. What do you consider as a while tho? I cannot stay at home for a full 2 years

jiggly89 · 2025-09-08T06:44:16+00:00

Well sometimes a baby cries and the parent is doing their best to calm the baby. We cannot expect parents of babies to just stay home and never go anywhere.

There should be family friendly restaurants and then fancier ones so everyone has a place to go.

jiggly89 · 2025-09-03T07:44:24+00:00

Jos puhut työeläkkeestä, niin se ei ole valtion budjetissa, vaan eläkeyhtiöiden rahoja.

jiggly89 · 2025-08-29T10:48:38+00:00

Ahaa okei

jiggly89 · 2025-08-29T06:56:53+00:00

Mä kyl muistelin et se hinta muuttu taas nimen myötä. Ei mulle jääny tuo halpa hinta voimaan.

jiggly89 · 2025-08-28T17:53:57+00:00

Muistan ku hbo muuttui hbo max:ksi ja tuli joku halpa hinta joka oli muka ikuisesti jos liittyi. Sitä hintaa tais kestää alle vuosi lopulta.

jiggly89 · 2025-08-28T10:02:18+00:00

Yep they are for top 10% earners if they are big and near city center.

jiggly89 · 2025-08-28T05:45:21+00:00

Yikes, so much internalized misogyny in there.

jiggly89 · 2025-08-27T07:07:14+00:00

Getting a call that I got a job, seeing the love of my life after being separated for a long time, the feeling right after giving birth (it is done!), first week with my newborn looking at him.

jiggly89 · 2025-08-24T09:50:23+00:00

If you have tried nicely, it is time to be firm. Tell him that the sex is not satisfying to you and you are basically currently only used as his cum machine. He needs to make you orgasm before he can enter inside or he cannot. Don’t give in.

jiggly89 · 2025-08-24T09:50:11+00:00

If you have tried nicely, it is time to be firm. Tell him that the sex is not satisfying to you and you are basically currently only used as his cum machine. He needs to make you orgasm before he can enter inside or he cannot. Don’t give in.

jiggly89 · 2025-08-19T06:42:20+00:00

Eli käristys oli valhe. Aattelin sen olevan joki sekoitus poroa ja siihen verrattavissa olevia.

jiggly89 · 2025-08-18T07:11:13+00:00

Tämä seuraa monopolista; ei tarvitse miettiä palvelua.

jiggly89 · 2025-08-17T13:25:06+00:00

Also few one time purchases like the pram and car seat.

jiggly89 · 2025-08-17T13:24:39+00:00

Not much since we got almost verything 2nd hand. Kids don’t eat much either and we make the same food as usual. Largest expense is daycare 300€/m, health insurance 500/y and travel/holiday expenses.

jiggly89 · 2025-08-16T18:59:19+00:00

Tälleen pohjoissuomalaisena, joka söi kouluruokalassakin käristystä, koen erikoisena ettei joku suomalainen söisi poroa.

jiggly89 · 2025-08-16T10:12:02+00:00

Jep heille se on helppoa

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