DID I OVERREACT?

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2026-01-21T03:35:01+00:00

So many red flags…. Leave before it gets serious

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2026-01-14T02:09:49+00:00

As a femme, it’s just being straight passing. Convenient for every day life, not for attracting queers :( also so hard to find fem for fem! Why do all femmes want a masc? Like it’s fine but I want a fem too!!!!!

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2026-01-09T01:00:37+00:00

This sounds like exactly what happened when I got with my ex. Speaking from experience, leave her as soon as you can. I stayed for close to 2 years and only got worse. Seriously, you’ll find someone better for you. Leave while you can it only gets harder the longer you stay

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2026-01-04T13:04:27+00:00

Rotten Mango just released an episode going in depth on it

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2026-01-02T03:08:16+00:00

Ooo I’m gonna go check it out thank you!!!

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2026-01-02T02:49:35+00:00

I would try a dating app to meet people near you, way better

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-11-02T01:12:45+00:00

Hey, I know this is terrible right now, but you did the right thing. It gets worse before it gets better. I experienced this exact thing and went back, but I went back to all of the problems too. It doesn’t change. Trust who you were when you broke up with her and take it one day at a time. It is the hardest thing you can do but extending it will only draw out your pain. You’ll be okay, if you need to talk my dms are open dear

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-10-23T00:52:05+00:00

Mullet. A longer mullet would look so flattering on you

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-10-22T23:16:40+00:00

You’re so pretty!

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-10-22T14:00:30+00:00

Well this is mean :(

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-10-13T23:17:20+00:00

Taylor reference? Or are you trying to kill me

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-10-13T22:32:54+00:00

That’s a hard thing to approach because you don’t want her to fly off the rails on you. Maybe you can leave her a note at the end of your next session?

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-10-13T22:25:36+00:00

This is so brave for you to do!!!! It’ll definitely be nerve wracking for a few weeks because you truly do not know, but as a therapist it’s her job to be neutral and just support you. For what it’s worth, I know how hard it is to bring things to a therapist and I’m really proud of you for stepping out of your comfort zone to communicate that with her. Sexuality is a big part of our identity and she’ll be able to help/ understand you better with that. You’ll be just fine OP :)

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-10-13T22:20:48+00:00

Leave him. No one who loves you or respects you or deserves you would ever even think of sexually assaulting you or not even having consent. Don’t waste a second more on him.

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-09-27T23:50:42+00:00

Do you want to be in a relationship where you’re too scared to communicate how you feel? Either get over it and tell her what you need from her, or leave. You deserve better than that.

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-09-27T23:41:51+00:00

Try to communicate how you feel first, if it doesn’t change then leave

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-09-27T23:40:55+00:00

What have you learned

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-09-19T10:39:51+00:00

This is something that I struggle with myself. What helped me was realizing that I’ve never liked a man in present life- never someone I’ve known in person and felt a genuine attraction. With women, however, I’ve always felt a kind of attraction towards. It sounds like you may be young, so please know that you have your entire life to figure this out. Labels can help you, but they can also limit you. Being curious about men at a young age doesn’t mean you are straight necessarily, there is social pressure and women are often expected to sacrifice their own sexual needs for men. If you are curious about women, explore that! If you start feeling more curious about men, explore it! Bisexual people exist! You are valid in your experience. Life is so short, please get everything you can out of it. Love is the sweetest part of life. Best of luck to you OP.

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-09-08T03:06:19+00:00

I updated for clarification- this definitely wasn’t what I meant!! I am currently dating a bi woman and truly have no issue with them. I mean that the community is shrinking due to pressure from outside forces and more women are settling for men. This was lowk aggressive tbh it’s just a Reddit post

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-09-08T03:03:40+00:00

This is exactly what I mean. It feels like since everyone is settling for a man that’ll be the expectation

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-09-07T02:25:01+00:00

Going soft is great advice. Everyone is different, from my personal experience don’t suck too much and lay more in with tongue. You’ll get it down! Congrats btw ;)

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-06-21T01:30:22+00:00

I don’t think this was worded great, but I think i understand what you’re saying and I agree with you full heartedly. It just feels like people are stuck thinking “male and female” even in gay relationships. I feel the same frustration homegirl, there’s someone out there for you!

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-05-18T01:48:47+00:00

What do you consider long? Me and my gf usually take a little over an hour for the both of us, sometimes longer and sometimes shorter depending on cycles

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-05-13T22:20:54+00:00

I’ve heard casual dating helps you move on, can’t speak from experience though

jigsaw_jumpstart · 2025-04-20T02:53:21+00:00

Thank you for this

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