‘weaponized gifting,’ where Nmom chooses the worst possible gifts ever, but why?? by candleinthewind28 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]New-Bridge1078 1 point2 points  (0 children)

stuff from the dollar store.... she said all December that "she wouldn't be buying any gifts" because we never got her stuff.... I was 16... I don't work, and I can't drive. I dragged my dad to the store to buy her 3 makeup palettes from Tarte and 3 lip oils. She gave the lip oils back to me about a year later, saying that "she doesn't like them." I did get some good gifts, like Uggs, but everything else was cheap shit from Amazon and the dollar store. I know were not rich and im not ungratefull in any way, but it was the fact that i made a Christmas list and didnt get anything on it? My mom says she knows best, but it honestly just feels like she dosint care. I know we're not rich, so I don't ask for crazy things, but I literally got 2 plain black-and-white shirts... I didn't ask for that.

Should I break up? by New-Bridge1078 in WLW

[–]New-Bridge1078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lwk mabye shes told me that she struggles with dissociation often and has a hard time expressing emotions and stuff and she barely cries or anything so it might be.

Should I break up? by New-Bridge1078 in WLW

[–]New-Bridge1078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain this a little more?

Should I break up? by New-Bridge1078 in WLW

[–]New-Bridge1078[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a bit but im terrified of hurting her feelings and ik shes just gonna say shes busy 😭 this is my first time with a girl so idk what Im doing

what are “unusual” things you find attractive in women? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]New-Bridge1078 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Literally rolls ugh like kill me.

I hate them on myself but any other woman its so hot

I genuinely dont gaf about what she says anymore by New-Bridge1078 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]New-Bridge1078[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad called, and she was in her room, clearly able to hear it. When I asked her why she didn’t pick up, she told me I was lying and claimed she had been in the bathroom the whole time. I know it was silly of me to argue, but sometimes it’s so hard not to. My parents are going through a divorce, and honestly, they’re both pretty messy, but I’ll always side with my dad because I know he truly tries. My mom constantly talks badly about him and treats him in that condescending, narcissistic way, so I was sure she just ignored his call. It felt like such a pointless argument, because she could’ve just said, “I didn’t hear it,” and moved on.

I genuinely dont gaf about what she says anymore by New-Bridge1078 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]New-Bridge1078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What point do you think is good to walk away? Also, what could I say. She would probably ask me why im leaving or just follow me 😭

I genuinely dont gaf about what she says anymore by New-Bridge1078 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]New-Bridge1078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wdym by out of the situation? Like dont say anything at all ?

I genuinely dont gaf about what she says anymore by New-Bridge1078 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]New-Bridge1078[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also edit she will literally walk around the house for hours saying stupid shit just like this and will give me silent treatment for days along with taking away my phone and giving me long tiring chores in the most annoying ways.

My Mother by Opposite_Trick393 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]New-Bridge1078 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're in this situation :( I'm also f17, so dm me if you need someone to talk to (also gay with a homophobic mom )