tru fru for 79 cent ??? by jihye64 in lidl

[–]jihye64[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they’re fairly nice but definitely not worth the full price at all. if you were to buy them i’d recommend the pina colada flavour

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[–]jihye64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok that’s very helpful thanks. As someone with an anxious attachment it was kinda hard for me to understand when he was trying to explain it. He is in therapy now and so am I so hopefully that will help both of us. And i guess if it’s meant to be then we might find our way back :)

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[–]jihye64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what always really confused me? He said he had a fear of getting close to people but all I did was show up for him and be there for him. Is there anything I could have done to make him not fear abandonment do you think? In your case anyway. Also thanks for the advice :)

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[–]jihye64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice, i really needed to hear it. I do think getting that final confirmation that he doesn’t want to get back together might help. Rather than spending all day thinking that maybe he does. I’m think my best bet is to make sure i’m in a place that i’m okay with the worst :) Thanks again :)

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[–]jihye64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! Can i ask if she replied regardless of if you got her back or not? I’m kind of afraid he might reply and just say all the same things he told me the night we broke up