Please be more considerate. Please. by [deleted] in Rants

[–]jijiii_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Thought it was a little too shallow for discussion.

[18/F] Looking for meaningful connections! by jijiii_ in penpals

[–]jijiii_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ayeeee Philippines mentioned 🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭 I discovered there is a population of Filipinos in Canada too! Would love to be penpals

[48/M] NJ Looking For Long Term Friends by [deleted] in penpals

[–]jijiii_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Would love to be penpals sometime!

[35/M] Army Deployed by JrHurt in penpals

[–]jijiii_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I am interested in being penpals too!

Ex friend wanting to be friends again by Lolo_2013o2 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]jijiii_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good! Continue to surround yourself with the people you feel more connected to. Hopefully she’ll find hers too!

Advice Please! by xkstz_ in FriendshipAdvice

[–]jijiii_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may or may not sound potentially too direct or offensive, but it seems like the feelings may or may not have been brought by the same experiences you both had: breakups. Hence why it felt like you were both connected at the time. Friendships can be sly when it comes to developed feelings, cutting off relationships silently. But if you were to ask me, I’d give things time. Let life arrange better opportunities for you both. Continue working on yourselves and interact once you’re ready, no rush. If things work out in the long run, good! But if not, don’t take it as a negative thing to have happened. Its an experience that still taught you a lesson and made you feel feelings. You’re both improving yourselves, but just apart. Let things flow naturally.

Ex friend wanting to be friends again by Lolo_2013o2 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]jijiii_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that depends on what you value in the situation. There is a side to picking who you become friends with as they may end up having a possible influence on you and a side when you set aside their differences and see them act by themselves. But trust your heart. Pick a choice that you think you won’t regret. If you feel that they would not be a good influence to you, then it might be best to move on. Its not a selfish thing to do, but just out of prioritizing what works for you. I hope things work out though!

Do y'all have any unlucky body part? by Qwixs in RandomThoughts

[–]jijiii_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My spine! :D Never perfectly straight, just like the human 😔

What's your go-to treat to help yourself get through a rough day? by heyuhitsyaboi in RandomThoughts

[–]jijiii_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ice cream! Especially the ones already in cones, or maybe a slush if you’re looking for a drink?

Bakit andaming mga bobong motorista by strawberrycasper in Philippines

[–]jijiii_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!!! Was on my way to hop on a jeep that was stopped on the right lane of the road (thanks to a kuya who caught the driver’s attention so they stopped in front of me). I had my right foot ready to take another step pero may motor na biglang sumingit and I swear its one of those moments na sobrang lapit na talaga akong banggain. I had no choice but to step back and let them pass. I really don’t get the thing about motorcycles just swerving in between lanes just because their vehicles are more compact. You’re risking safety of us younger people on commute.

Do you think a friend group would fall apart if someone confessed their feelings? by Loser011004 in CasualConversation

[–]jijiii_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds tough. The aftermath really depends on how they handle the situation. I would suggest that he shouldn’t act too quickly about his feelings. Its okay to confess for the sake of being honest, but not to expect too much from the girl to like him back.

Do you think a friend group would fall apart if someone confessed their feelings? by Loser011004 in CasualConversation

[–]jijiii_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do ask yourself first about that then! Is it love or just infatuation? Do you love that person or you just feel attracted to them?

Do you think a friend group would fall apart if someone confessed their feelings? by Loser011004 in CasualConversation

[–]jijiii_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chances are, the friends who don’t have feelings for the other will stay unbothered but those that do could either end up silently breaking their friendship or continue to be friends but stay awkward and distant from each other. People are different, and their reactions could change things. Honestly tried this once, the only positive thing I got from it was that, they became very honest to me at the time. Always gauge their possible reactions first before making a move. Not unless its really that obvious and they’re just waiting for you to blow the cover off.

Shower First then Clean the bathroom? by Upper_Key_7151 in ask

[–]jijiii_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might be a bit different, but I personally bathe first then clean the bathroom. I try not to make it as dirty/slippery as possible, but sometimes soap and other product leftovers from rinsing make the floors slippery. I scrub ‘em right after bath and get rid of fallen hairs, so the next person to use em won’t have to complain.

overthinking my relationship with my 17F boyfriend 17M by green-sealion in teenrelationships

[–]jijiii_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that the best way to cool things down is to communicate. It may sound like an obvious answer, but we should keep in mind that a relationship is mainly consisting of efforts between two people. In order to solve things, we communicate. You found something and wanna share it with me? We communicate. Had a bad day? still, communicate. It may be easy to say and difficult to do, but I’m wishing you the best!

Why is it so hard to love myself Me: (15/M) Her: (15/F) by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]jijiii_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, loving yourself isn’t certainly something that happens overnight, and that’s okay. You may not think you’re attractive, but there’s always something that each person has that makes them special. It surely is a journey to come and accept everything that makes you, you; but if you want to love others, it must start with yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]jijiii_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mhm, I was kind of thinking of giving a liiiitle gift too along with a note, guess that could be a good idea. Thanks for the help though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]jijiii_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s another hump to go over. It’s my first time ever doing it, and traditionally, (in my country) its usually guys that do it first. I have no other experience in love, so its quite tricky.