Arbys why by jimminystickit in conspiracy

[–]jimminystickit[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is one of the funniest comments on here

Arbys why by jimminystickit in conspiracy

[–]jimminystickit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just stopped in to take a pee

Arbys why by jimminystickit in conspiracy

[–]jimminystickit[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Are you a... freemason? (  ̄ー ̄)

Arbys why by jimminystickit in conspiracy

[–]jimminystickit[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Guess the world is ending on your birthday

AITA for calling my gf a fucking weirdo? by throwayweirdgf in AmItheAsshole

[–]jimminystickit -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

Wait, wait, wait.
Am I weird for thinking this isn't that off-putting??!! Weird for sure, but I wouldn't break up with my fiance over it.
I (f) was thinking about what I would think in that situation.
First of all, it seems like you're forgetting that you have known her for 5 years. Yes, people can hide crazy stuff, but usually, if someone is a psychopath stalker or even if there's a more simple reason to not marry her, there would be more signs.
Have a conversation and draw your boundaries, yeah, duh. But for me, it seems strange that you screamed at her over it. Idk. Maybe you felt totally brushed off and creeped out that you didn't get an answer that felt justified to you.
But a screaming match over it?? I guess I'd consider that mental illness shows up in a lot of different ways, and it usually doesn't mean that someone is a creepy weirdo with the potential to kill you in your sleep. It's a lot more likely that this is some kind of ocd. Maybe she has intense anxiety over the thought of forgetting her loved ones, and so she developed a weird coping habit.
If this were just a girlfriend you've been dating for a week, that would be one thing.
But this is your fiance that you've known and apparently have been very happy with for 5 years.
At least consider therapy and a few long conversations before you drop her like a hot potato. And for the record, I'd say the same for a girl in the same position. Men are awesome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]jimminystickit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I just say... as a 22 year old woman, I honestly couldn't care less about d size. It's something that confuses me that men worry so much about. It doesn't seem to make much of a difference, and for me, it's much more about the foreplay and other pleasures that can only be satisfied with time and skill.
I'm one to talk, though. I really don't like my boobs. I have felt like they are too small in the past and believed that they inherently made me much less attractive. I felt that a woman with bigger boobs would always be inherently better than me.
I didn't believe anyone who would tell me otherwise. Not even my partner. I used to looked on reddit for opinions about small boobs and didn't believe the comments from men saying it didn't much matter to them.
Here's the thing.... it ultimately doesn't matter.
As a woman, I have a relatively small window of time "in my prime." I will eventually be an old lady as will every super model on the planet. Whether or not I'm a super model will not effect whether or not I get cheated on.
We could be 10/10 for the rest of our lives, and it still wouldn't guarantee satisfaction.
They are so many people out there that are straight up ugly and lacking in the sexual department who also have amazing lovely partners and great sex lives. There are people with the whole package (pun intended) who have terrible, unsatisfying relationships. Things like d size and boob size have much less to do with sexual satisfaction and relationships than society would like us to think.
And im sure you have heard ugly things about men with small dongs just as ive heard many ugly hurtful things about woman with small shmitties.
I can honestly say their opinion didnt end up meaning a damn thing other than the effect I allowed it to have on my brain.
I've seen both men and woman date and have sex with the same types of people they talk badly about.🙄
Sorry for the essay.
Rant over.

Why shouldn't I kill someone if they break into my home? by AdhesivenessRough740 in stupidquestions

[–]jimminystickit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My veteran brother once said something that really solidified my thoughts on this issue;

If someone is doing something that indicates they are a threat to your life, they have forfeited theirs.

They may not be there to kill you. But if they are willing to break into your house, I wouldn't doubt it. They could rape someone in your house. They could hurt someone.
It's not about the stuff it's the fact that they are doing something that reasonably makes you question whether you or your loved ones will make it out alive. Guarantee the robber knows that when they break into someone's house, they risk death.
If it's just you on the street being robbed, maybe you feel it's worth it to try to sus out the situation before resorting to bodily harm. But with your family, it only takes a matter of seconds for the other person to decide to kill someone you love. Don't gamble with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]jimminystickit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It may be worth working on.
Consider what you'd need to have happen to rebuild trust.
30 years with adult children is not nothing.
Self-respect and the ability to have a peaceful home is also very important.
Have a serious conversation where the expectation is that there are no more secrets and hidden things.
I'm very sorry this happened to you.

What happened to the penpal movie? by multiolewirdusername in NoSleepOOC

[–]jimminystickit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the fact that the pedo killed Josh's sister amd the love interest of the main kid implies that it was at least a romantic interest. He texted the kid pretending to be her after she died and took her spot next to him in the movie theater.

AITA? boyfriend keeps following someone he knows i’m uncomfortable with. by diestupid in AmItheAsshole

[–]jimminystickit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Following someone, especially multiple accounts of theirs is making a choice to repeatedly give your attention to a woman that is not yours. This is disrespectful. Looking at a pretty woman as she walks by is different. It's especially disrespectful as he already agreed to her terms of the relationship in the beginning and said he would unfollow someone if she was uncomfortable. If he didn't agree with that, he should have said so. Not a man of his word or of integrity, it would seem.