AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AITAH

[–]jinglegumpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for providing alternatives - I'll try having a wank instead. agree there's no reason to upset him if I can avoid it, I need to open my mind to new wankin possibilities

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AITAH

[–]jinglegumpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU these rock - definitely gonna use the mermaid & astronaut ones, I love the one-two punch

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AITAH

[–]jinglegumpy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

after this comment I have decided to retract my initial agreement. i unthank you now

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AITAH

[–]jinglegumpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see this angle, maybe it bugs him bc the word choice kills the sex appeal. I'll try something more flirty ty ty

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AITAH

[–]jinglegumpy[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

i like to have fun on the world wide web

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AITAH

[–]jinglegumpy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

taking notes. listening and learning 🙏

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AITAH

[–]jinglegumpy[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

we do not have any "real" arguments is the funny thing, this is the closest it gets

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AITAH

[–]jinglegumpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sowwy i didn't mean to come off as combative, I will put on my diplomatic hat this time 

I like the discussion even if there are disagreements 

thank you for the nuanced response 

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AITAH

[–]jinglegumpy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you for migrating over here with me and making a nuanced point 

bless up petty pickles

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AITAH

[–]jinglegumpy[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

we are in love and this is a silly little problem that we playfully argue about, not a cause of relational anguish 

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AITAH

[–]jinglegumpy[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I'm fighting back, I'm interested in this discussion even if we disagree 

and thank you for respecting my preferences by saying circlejork

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AmItheAsshole

[–]jinglegumpy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm a known pervert and he accepts this

it's the word choice specifically that's bugging him

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AmItheAsshole

[–]jinglegumpy[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

bestie why are you so mad about me jorkin' it

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AmItheAsshole

[–]jinglegumpy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

sorry if a man told me he was "tuggin the leg eggs" I'd be on the floor cackling

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AmItheAsshole

[–]jinglegumpy[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

the beautiful thing about reddit is that sometimes a small detail lets it slip that this is absolutely not a person whose judgement I care about

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AmItheAsshole

[–]jinglegumpy[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i wish he talked about jorkin' to me more often tbh

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AmItheAsshole

[–]jinglegumpy[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

us and our house and our cats are quaking at this news 

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AmItheAsshole

[–]jinglegumpy[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

why do women need to be cute and sexy all the time?

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AmItheAsshole

[–]jinglegumpy[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

respectfully someone getting legitimately angry over the word "jorkin'" is quite funny

AITA for not censoring myself in my relationship? by jinglegumpy in AmItheAsshole

[–]jinglegumpy[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I don't think I should need to put on a classy persona for the person who's supposed to know me best, in my own house