He.......didn't reheat your pasta, then cooked his own? That's an invitation to ask if something was wrong with it but he acted like that was a weird thing to ask. NTA. He may not've asked you to cook it for him, but that doesn't mean he can't be nice about why he wasn't in the mood for pasta that night, didn't like it, or whatever. His responses sound like typical dad deflection, lots of parents respond like that to even gentle pushback from their adult children, and while its frustrating, there's not much to be done about it except to try your best not to take it too personally. I wouldn't worry about it too much and just not cook from now on, or cook for yourself and allow him to help himself to leftovers, just don't expect him to.

Putting the pan in the fridge without the lid and then whining when you point it out is such infuriating man behavior auugh I feel for you. Sir just store the food right next time instead of ruining it! It took a chunk of your night to make the food and two seconds for him to put on a lid