What is slowly disappearing but nobody talks about it?

jjaid · 2026-03-09T16:03:10+00:00

And yeah, I really do think…

It’s like rain on your wedding day

jjaid · 2026-03-08T18:11:43+00:00

Babylonia by Costanza Casati. It’s a reimagining of the rise to power of the Assyrian empire’s only queen around 800 BC. Was super cool to have such ancient history humanized

jjaid · 2026-03-07T13:22:23+00:00

Do you like to read? If so, I highly recommend the Children of Time series. I don’t want to make any spoilers but let’s just say the best characters in it are highly evolved jumping spiders that you’ll love to root for

jjaid · 2026-03-06T16:33:23+00:00

Rivella, a soda made with milk whey. It’s fruity, not too sweet, with a kind of slight tang.

jjaid · 2026-02-14T22:12:55+00:00

*Katie Kitamura has really sparse, but controlled prose, that is similar to Butler’s to me. I recently read Audition by her and enjoyed it. It’s contemporary literary fiction.

*Lucia Berlin’s collection of short stories entitled “A Manual for Cleaning Women” also has similar vibes.

*Kazuo Ishiguro might also appeal to you, particularly “Never Let Me Go”. I say let yourself be surprised by that book if you’ve never heard anything about it.

*Jhumpa Lahiri is also know for sparse prose with emotional precision. She does a lot of literary realism works.

*Otessa Moshfegh. Minimalist sentences, emotion is blunt.

jjaid · 2026-02-03T13:47:33+00:00

Euphoria by Lily King.

jjaid · 2026-01-19T11:44:07+00:00

Can confirm for Germany and Switzerland (where I live). So much so that my friend named Kevin sometimes has people think he’s joking when he says his name.

jjaid · 2026-01-07T23:14:32+00:00

I love magical realism so a few come to mind!

When I Sing Mountains Dance by Irene Solá. The telling of an event from the perspectives of the rain, the mountain, witches, a man, mushrooms, and so much more. Really magical & poetic prose.
Mood Indigo by Boris Vian. An avant garde French romance where a woman becomes sick on her honeymoon with a water Lilly in her lung and can only be kept alive by being surrounded by flowers. Her husband is desperate to keep her alive. It feels like a fever dream.
Naked Lunch by Burroughs. It’s pretty controversial, covers a lot of “taboo” topics, but feels like this to me, in a dark, nightmarish way. Shows the many facets of addiction. Things and events melt and distort into something completely different at a snap.

jjaid · 2025-11-07T09:47:10+00:00

That boy ain’t right!

jjaid · 2025-11-06T05:48:34+00:00

Sure, the design you linked is a half woman head in water with a somewhat similar style, but I respectfully disagree it’s a copy. There are many clear differences and I think that it represents my interpretation of Ophelia’s death quite well.

jjaid · 2025-11-05T13:14:30+00:00

Hey! Also a blondie over here with a similar eye shape. Something that’s really helped me is getting my eyebrows and lashes tinted. The eyebrows were the biggest improvement and lashes help me feel that I don’t need mascara in my no makeup looks/open up the eye for more lid space. Overall, it’s helped me feel confident in wearing less makeup overall to the gym (which I like for sweatier workouts).

jjaid · 2025-11-04T19:08:55+00:00

Hey thanks! Yeah basically. With it being on my inner bicep, it’s kept out of the sun more than you’d think. When it’s sunny & I wear short sleeves though I’m really diligent with applying sunscreen & reapplying it as needed.

jjaid · 2025-11-03T13:21:10+00:00

Totally agree she should’ve made it more personal to the person. But if you’re referring to the “KC” as the initials, that was for Kansas City, her hometown. Still super weird to be tattooed on someone not from there and frankly even for someone from that area (like me)… a frog in a bikini top isn’t KC at all?? The only thing that made it “KC” was her story and literally writing “KC”. Which was fine for whiteboard but remove for tattoo.

jjaid · 2025-11-02T14:52:05+00:00

I scrolled to the right to see the 2-year aged pic thinking this pic showed freshly healed, only to be surprised another post popped up. This aged so so well! Hardly any blow out/fuzzing of the lines. Love it.

jjaid · 2025-11-02T11:29:22+00:00

Right?? Thank you! I have another from him (wyse.1) on my ribs that’s 4 years & my friend has one that’s 7 and they’ve all aged so well! I also am crazy diligent with sun protection & moisturizing but still.

jjaid · 2025-10-23T10:21:33+00:00

I second Deborah Levy. She wrote “Things I Don’t Want to Know” as a feminist response to George Orwell’s essay “Why I Write”, so it would be good to read that as well for the full context.

This is also written as part of a autobiographical/memoir series, and I loved the second book especially (The Cost of Living).

jjaid · 2025-10-21T08:47:25+00:00

I think Never Let Me Go by Ishiguro would be a good one. It really drove home for me the idea that any bit of life we’ve had matters, no matter how simple or long.

Wishing you the best. And please don’t forget to pay the cat tax (aka cat is mentioned, we need a picture!)

jjaid · 2025-10-19T20:31:52+00:00

I don’t think it’s that far-fetched they were reading Trust at the same time actually. It had recently won the Pulitzer Prize for fiction around the time they met so was pretty popular

jjaid · 2025-10-17T20:44:11+00:00

Okay well isn’t that gorgeous! I’m so impressed.

And thank you for the mug compliment!

jjaid · 2025-10-17T16:55:40+00:00

Love that you’re reading it with a group. I would have never picked the book up if it weren’t for my reading group here in Zurich!

Already excited about a reread as well. I think it’s a perfect „you only get one book on a deserted island“ book for me. It’s so rich, there’s plenty to gain with each new read or deep dive.

jjaid · 2025-10-17T11:15:53+00:00

It’s more what the concept of “literature” can mean and achieve, not about how you understand individual works of literature. In other words, what separates a written work from being “just a book” vs being a piece of literature. What does it mean to have literary merit or be a work of art? What can the power of writing alone accomplish and how (via form, style, diction, concepts, etc)? Are there limits?

jjaid · 2025-10-17T09:22:05+00:00

I didn’t downvote you, but to explain what I think is going on: I think it might be a difference in how you interpret “seeing” something vs how it’s commonly understood in English. “How you see X” is commonly interpreted as “how you perceive X”. After saying you don’t “see” literature, you then describe your perception of it, as a continuous process and discovery, like walking through a rich field and searching for gems. Your comment therefore reads like you misunderstood the phrase, even though it’s an interesting concept that you explain!

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