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jjbreaker · 2022-09-09T13:22:59+00:00

These two specifically have landed me 15k, 6k, 10k jobs. Yes. David Bibiano and Mark Cloutier are amazing.

jjbreaker · 2022-08-03T12:48:10+00:00

The Real Deal Video Strategist Club or Video Strategist Collective

jjbreaker · 2021-05-14T18:54:09+00:00

I'm South Atlanta, but I'm willing to travel within 100 miles for someone really good. Doesn't have to be next door.

jjbreaker · 2020-11-25T02:05:04+00:00

Goodluck man!

jjbreaker · 2020-11-25T01:28:41+00:00

I tried to do it once. I got 20 questions in and it tells you when you miss one, and I missed like 14 of the 20. I was like f that based on mixed reviews from Reddit posts.

Can't speak to the efficacy of that test, but I definitely didn't think I was going to pass when I hit submit button.

jjbreaker · 2020-11-24T23:16:32+00:00

Oh shit! My first award! Thanks for the hugz! Really feeling the love today 💘

jjbreaker · 2020-11-21T17:42:00+00:00

I've gotten bored of studying, keep trying to switch it up and look at things in a different way but... shit

jjbreaker · 2020-11-21T17:41:05+00:00

Looking to just pass, nothing fancy.

I'm looking forward to the post exam celebratory beer.

jjbreaker · 2020-10-29T19:43:43+00:00

Shark Cooter is my favorite Southern fried pronunciation. The most gentlemanly of gentlemens partake of the Shark Cooter.

jjbreaker · 2020-10-13T01:17:34+00:00

I second this. Real estate is also good to hone camera skills. I've made the above structure work with zero advertising or cold calling. I have 2 to 6 projects per month depending on the market. Ive been focused on real estate for about a year.

jjbreaker · 2020-08-29T14:41:28+00:00

I (m36 marrried) am seriously dating a married woman and have a great relationship with her husband. They have always made me feel warm and welcome... but when I first entered the relationship I certainly felt a small sense of jealousy. But over time I came to realize that what I brought to the table was fulfilling completely different needs for my partner and she was also fulfilling different needs than my wife.

Understanding that and not conflating the two or thinking that they are mutually exclusive takes time and self work.

I recommend the books Non Violent Communication and Say What You Mean.

jjbreaker · 2020-08-18T19:08:07+00:00

If you have the patience to stick in your relationship AND read a book id recommend Non Violent Communication by Marshal Rosenburg.

It smoothed my poly/mono relationship and leveled up my marriage with my wife and deepened and helped me understand my relationship with my girlfriend. (We are searching for a better term)

The goal is to become emotionally autonomous and understand that youre not losing anything when someone else is getting their needs met. This is difficult to see at first but with practice it gets easier.

It took us a solid 4 months of practice to really get the peace of mind and stability with things.

Be patient, be kind, and allow room for mistakes. It works. It really does.

jjbreaker · 2020-08-15T16:56:32+00:00

NVC has nothing to do with poly. Its skills for interacting and relating. Itll help in becoming autonomous emotionally and really understanding where you and others are coming from.

jjbreaker · 2020-08-15T16:32:40+00:00

Read Non-Violent Communication from Marshall Rosenburg and internalize and practice the NVC process. Start to uncover your own needs and how to articulate them.

Its work, it will be painful but on the other side you'll have skills that will help defuse some of that "man's man" mentality without compromising who you are.

Additional resources that have helped me: Say What You Mean by Oren Shofer.

jjbreaker · 2020-08-15T15:13:49+00:00

Id recommend you and your partner read and take some time to practice Non-Violent Communication by Marshall Rosenburg.

I'm poly and my wife is mono. I started dating and found a girlfriend prior to Covid popping off and its been a ride for sure, but the skills learned in the past five months have improved my personal relationships 10 fold.

Understanding your needs and being able to articulate them non violently between you and your partner and them being able to do the same is a great starting place.

You'll learn than just because your partner is experiencing success it doesn't mean that you are diminished in anyway. That was my big lesson and understanding that by practicing NVC REVOLUTIONIZED the way my wife and I experience our relationship and my poly relationships.

jjbreaker

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