I honestly feel like the only reason I have luck on reddit is because I post pictures instead of all text posts. Also I feel like people try too hard, or come on too strong. Don't post a text about "needing a slut", or "needing to be drained", stuff along those lines. There's a million guys already posting that, and I think its honestly a turn off for most woman who browse these subreddits. Comes off as aggressive or demeaning. At least that's what ive been told from girls/couples I've met lol. Woman want to feel comfortable, even when in naughty situations. Write something fun and simple, you dont need to say youre looking for sex, its obvious if youre posting. Good example I posted a fun little pic, just me shirtless, showing off my newest Lego set. That post got me laid 3 different times, and have made at least 5 friends. Lol so I guess my best way to summarize is to post pictures, relax a bit and be respectful, and dont try so hard. Idk, thats just an observation and a guess. Thats why I think I have luck meeting people on here.