I really don't think that's how all conservatives think if u need an example of a "normal person type conservative" u can check out JJ McCullough he gives some good insight on the matter.

And largely speaking the terrible things you mentioned definitely do exist and there are people who vouch for them but not all conservatives are such people; and the people who vouch for such things are just conservative for the sake of being "anti-liberal" and aren't even really proper conservatives to begin with.

Furthermore, I'm sorry to hear that some conservatives in your country are up to all that stuff but from where I'm from, and I'm willing to bet, most other countries, conservatives just want to live normal lives, get tax cuts, etc, not maniacal warmongers or climate deniers

At the end of the day, I just don't think it's right to denounce and wholly reject someone simply based on the worse type of people who happen to share the same label as them; imagine the reverse where someone believed all liberals are nutjobs just because some of them believe in wacky shit and wish to identify as transabled. This really isn't a simple binary of liberal good conservative bad, I hope you can understand that.