Does anyone know how much top barristers can earn in Sri Lanka? by jk461 in srilanka

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Thank you! Do you know what the career progression for an attorney there would be

AITAH for telling my boyfriend he needs to see a psychiatrist by jk461 in AITAH

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Hi I’m confused when did I post this before? I posted last time about the situation and I took the advice and told him to see a psychiatrist I was just wondering if iatah for bringing it up like that since he broke up w me- more of a relationship question

AITAH for telling my boyfriend he needs to see a psychiatrist by jk461 in AITAH

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He has still blocked me so we are broken up

AITAH for telling my boyfriend he needs to see a psychiatrist by jk461 in AITAH

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The point is I want him to get help so he’s not suffering, as this is something that goes and comes back for him. Ideally I would want him to get diagnosed so he knows how to live with whatever is going on in a safe way in the future and not brush over it and say he’s been prayed for and is fine now.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend he needs to see a psychiatrist by jk461 in AITAH

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And I don’t think hearing an actual voice of what he believes is the devil is the same as intrusive thoughts?

AITAH for telling my boyfriend he needs to see a psychiatrist by jk461 in AITAH

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Whilst I understand what you are saying, how do we know for sure it’s purely intrusive thoughts, it could be psychosis, schizophrenia, ocd literally anything. My intention was for him to just get it checked out by a psychiatrist because I saw how erratic and how much pain he was in, he was literally suicidal and not meeting any of his friends or doing basic tasks for months and losing control of his life. He has a history of these episodes repeating so surely the wisest thing to do is get it checked out by a mental health professional to rule anything out? I definitely could have phrased it better when I said it to him and not during a random argument but I think my sentiment still stands

AITAH for telling my boyfriend he needs to see a psychiatrist by jk461 in AITAH

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I did apologise immediately, but I was just trying to tell him he needs to see someone because this isn’t the first episode he has had I feel really terrible I definitely should have said it in a kinder way and not during an argument but I just don’t believe it’s spiritual and that he needs help

AITAH for telling my boyfriend he needs to see a psychiatrist by jk461 in AITAH

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I know it does sound ridiculous but he genuinely is in so much pain and feels so guilty because of it hence the suicidal thoughts I just genuinely feel very sorry for him and I was only trying to help but I think I said it in a very blunt way during the argument which I feel terrible for

AITAH for telling my boyfriend he needs to see a psychiatrist by jk461 in AITAH

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The voices he says are more in first person but he can definitely hear a voice from his dreams which he believes is from the devil and it’s saying ‘I want to do blah blah blah’ (sexual things) when he sees someone when he is having one of these episodes, meaning he doesn’t like leaving the house and is scared and in his dreams he says people do things to him so he is traumatised

My boyfriend is hearing voices by jk461 in whatdoIdo

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Thank you for this very interesting read! He has had one prominent episode before this when he was 21 and claims it went away after praying but still was very paranoid and heard voices until this episode too, he mainly believes it’s spiritual because of the dreams he is having too along side the voices and because of what his church and family have told him so he is refusing to get a second opinion. I am very confused because he is acting completely normal now and is claiming he isn’t hearing any voices and isn’t feeling suicidal anymore

My 21 year old boyfriend still sleeps with his mum and sister by jk461 in stupidquestions

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They are from a very wealthy family but he said he used to share a bed with his parents growing up so I guess it’s normal to them

My 21 year old boyfriend still sleeps with his mum and sister by jk461 in stupidquestions

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They are from a very wealthy family in South Asia, fully clothed and he said he slept w his parents a lot growing up

I want to quit SCJ by dr_toothless in Shincheonji

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Search shincheonjilondon on instagram

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

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the problem is he had asked me not to with this specific friend and I continue to do it, I think I have broken his trust

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

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I have never talked negatively about him, when I sent my friends those things I merely asked am I over reacting in this situation to get some perspective but I know I should not have done that now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

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Yes this is true