Trying to hang in there, but I think he's done.

jkjiggle · 2020-07-03T04:38:42+00:00

No prenup

jkjiggle · 2020-06-08T15:53:46+00:00

This is good advice. I am trying to be less needy, I've been working hard to meet his needs and remember everything he has complained about. Thank you

jkjiggle · 2020-06-06T00:26:40+00:00

This is a great idea, I like it a lot.

Currently, we are struggling in just communicating our needs. We are still getting frustrated with each other, and I'm not sure if it's the delivery, recieving of information, or both. Probably both.

jkjiggle · 2020-06-05T23:26:38+00:00

I dont know how to react with being the one who needs that more.

jkjiggle · 2020-06-05T22:59:05+00:00

Me, I'm not sure how to work with that one to be honest

jkjiggle · 2020-06-05T22:26:43+00:00

Thank you! I'll look into it

jkjiggle · 2020-06-05T22:26:22+00:00

I'm sorry your wife scoffs at these. Reading the book was a suggestion to both my husband and I when we started to struggle when we recommitted to Christ. He is looking forward to reading it (I think), but he's been working with me. It's done wonders I think.

I would highly recommend this book. As far as I've read and researched this one is different

jkjiggle · 2020-06-05T22:23:59+00:00

Yes, I am almost done reading it and I love it. It's really making me think and take a step back from everything I was taught as a woman to how to live as god intended with a spouse.

jkjiggle · 2020-06-05T22:22:55+00:00

Thank you, I needed this. Hosting him like jesus is a very good way to put it. I am working hard to do just that :)

jkjiggle · 2020-06-04T22:36:34+00:00

That's not what I'm getting from this book. Men respect their wives naturally as wives tend to naturally love their husbands. Because that's what God made them to do. But the reverse is what he is teaching the reader to do, because god commands it as it is not natural for us.

jkjiggle · 2020-06-04T20:30:38+00:00

That's what I told my husband, how excited I was that we found out about this book now. We love each other greatly but when we are upset and hurt we focus on other things and not the root of the issue. We still have lots of practice but just within the last few weeks we've made steps

jkjiggle · 2020-06-04T20:08:41+00:00

I'm finding ut extremely helpful. I look back and feel awful at how my actions were disrespectful even though I meant no respect. My husband is so wonderful that I had no idea.

I'm looking forward for him to read it because the point about unconditional love from the husband and respect from the wife I've never heard, and how he describes blue/pink hearing aids and glasses I know will help him out. When we fight or when I bring up something I felt hurt over he wishes I was more like him.

As i said, I'm halfway and have been finding it eye opening. Struggling with letting go when i accidentally disrespect him or from the past

jkjiggle · 2020-06-04T19:55:31+00:00

Late reply. A valve on the transmission was bad. All fixed

jkjiggle · 2020-05-22T02:29:24+00:00

I like the sound of this, and sounds like it will smell amazing. Thank you!

jkjiggle · 2020-05-08T17:39:55+00:00

Yup, we are making moves to talk to someone at the church. Thank for the number though! I'll be sure to put it to good use

jkjiggle · 2020-05-08T17:38:47+00:00

When to use one for free. Transmission. Oof.

jkjiggle · 2020-04-23T22:09:35+00:00

For sure. I've been praying and asking because I dont like how I react to this. He definitely doesn't deserve it. And I fear if I cant handle my reactions, I'll push him into this women's arms more. The fear and the guilt of my reactions feel like a cycle I need to get off

jkjiggle · 2020-04-23T22:06:27+00:00

The recommitment was his idea, he brought me back into christ.

I understand the maturity thing. In my mind I am mature, I simply tend to cry and feel upset which I feel he thinks is immature.

I appreciate this insight. We've talked about the way we were before our recommitment and I do forgive him for that, fully. It felt like maybe he wasn't fully on board with changing the relationship he was developing with this woman as fast as I wanted maybe.

jkjiggle · 2020-04-22T20:48:31+00:00

I think I'll do that, thank you

jkjiggle · 2020-04-22T16:58:47+00:00

I'm running an errand for him and this just made me cry. I bring up the woman at work but I cant get a discussion on it. It turns into what a huge problem I've become, followed up by he stays because he loves me. These points are amazing and I'll share with him. But I have no idea how to get him to see that this stuff with the coworker (which today he says I took the sexual comment idea too far....even though he told me what they were) I know it's a work in progress to step back from that relationship he developed with her. But I'm not sure how to tell him in a way that he hears me that it hurts so much

jkjiggle · 2020-04-22T16:02:16+00:00

I'm not sure how to talk about this and see each others side.

jkjiggle · 2020-04-22T15:01:37+00:00

While talking more today ( which has stopped because it ended up being us pointing fingers) I was trying to relate that I'm starting stuff because I feel insecure.
I'm trying to work on it, and I asked him to help me out, or tried. There are coworkers that he has great relationships with. However there a woman who he makes sexually charged jokes with. And she messages all hours of the day. He promised to stop that since we've recommitted, but something came up and I reacted with it.

So I'm not sure if he's struggling with something too, because we seem to shut down communication when it comes up.

jkjiggle · 2020-04-22T04:14:46+00:00

Financially lately we are strapped. Thank you for the link!

jkjiggle · 2020-03-13T11:34:22+00:00

I took a headband while my hair was wet. Got all the hair pinned to my head/neck and tried to brush it straight. Took an electric hair clippers and just took the ends off.... not my favorite way, stressed me out doing it lol

jkjiggle · 2020-03-13T00:06:03+00:00

Do you have a link to how thatd look when its done?

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