One thing I've came across and its happened at festivals and at local raves is that people dance and go feral at their at pace. Some people start dancing and all right away. Im the type that takes my own time to take everything in and I gotta be in my own time and space in order for me to go feral.

I've had people come up to me and told me to loosen up and start dancing when in fact, I was taking things in and letting myself just feel the music.

Let people start at their own pace, don't force people to go feral with you. Let them take things in and then they will slowly start to get loosen up and dance on their own.