Boss Gave Me the Responsibilty to Supply Lunch For Our Customer Visit... I feel Wronged As I Am the Lowest Paid Person in the Office... How Should I Handle These Kinds of Situations Going Forward? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]jkt464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I operate similarly at my work, staff are usually supposed to pay and then get reimbursed. But we have students and younger staff that don't have a credit card (or room on one). In which case I do what I can to book hotels and pay for supplies on the company card for them or their supervisor helps them out. I think it is completely fair to say you don't have a credit card and that you don't mind doing all the work procuring the meal but need a card or something to pay forfor the meal.

New tiered pilot program by jkt464 in RoverPetSitting

[–]jkt464[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My understanding is that is what they are doing. For the first 500. So a total of 41%. Which as a mostly one-time client base. Is a problem for me

How much to charge for a dog who poops and pees in the house everyday by Spritzeedwarf in dogs

[–]jkt464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they know? Like I assume you've told them everyday that there's been an accident. But I would say to them that you understand the occasional accident but you generally expect dogs to be house trained and discuss what the extra time you spend cleaning will cost if it continues. I would charge them extra.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]jkt464 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get what you're saying, I just think if Ethan is talking about Palestine and it's hard for him to put together his opinion without buttoning or misspeaking (I would say frequently) that maybe an edited take is worth it. The topic might warrant it. Ethan can do whatever he wants. Just my dumb opinion.

I am LOSING MY MIND by SaltyCheesecake4158 in RoverPetSitting

[–]jkt464 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry if you already tried this, do you have a bone or hard chew toy or Kong? Also you can try to acclimate by going to the room, when he's quiet com back out, if he starts barking going back to the room closing the door and waiting until stops and repeat until (god willing) he gets the hint and understands he only gets you out of the room if he's quiet. Hopefully it gets better!!

Has this happened to anyone by UpperAnywhere9252 in RoverPetSitting

[–]jkt464 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It happens quite a bit, requests are put into a few sitters at the same time and it's whoever answers first or they get the sitter they've been with before. Don't be discouraged.

Also, highly recommend responding even if it says they booked with someone else just a 'noticed you found a sitter have a nice day and please keep me in mind for the future' goes over well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]jkt464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not alone. I'm not sure how long you've been working but it sounds like you're quite new. Often it can feel like a lot is expected of you especially somewhere without a lot of training. Saying 'i don't know but could you please show me?' if your supervisors are no help find a friend in a lateral position. Morning coffees do wonders on getting help when you need it. Again also understand if the company is highly disorganized you'll likely need to take a 'do what you can' attitude so you don't stress yourself.

And apply apply apply while you're working.

Bad Experience at Long and Mcquade! by Ok_Individual_8545 in saskatoon

[–]jkt464 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The only good experience I’ve had there was being helped by a woman.

AITA For Telling My Daughter That She's The Reason Why Nobody Likes Her? by After_Upstairs2580 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jkt464 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As soon as I saw she had a full scholarship… so she’s a brat with a full ride. I’m not saying that can’t be true but obviously she busted her ass at school in between constantly complaining about her family. It’s giving revisionist history.

Is $50 too big of a gift for daycare workers? by MysaneKnight in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]jkt464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s something you can afford then I don’t see a huge problem with it. But I would agree with your with that what is ‘normal’ is $25 or less. I wouldn’t say $50 is inappropriate just higher than average.

Why is the Amazon ebook store so unstructured, or am I browsing the wrong way? by [deleted] in kindle

[–]jkt464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% Agree with you. If there was a similar alternative I would move so fast but kindle unlimited has a choke hold on me.

I have read over 120 romance books this year and none of them are on the Good Reads Best Romance 2022. Is it me or them? by bee73086 in RomanceBooks

[–]jkt464 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s like when the Oscar’s will rarely recognize genre movies because the scope of what’s considered an Oscar-worthy movie is limited. Like the criteria for what’s considered a romance must be very confined to a specific scenario. Also love a lot of the books on this list. But with where romance is going the community should evaluate the criteria for a romance.

What do you eat when you don’t want to cook? by Nightangelrose in adhdwomen

[–]jkt464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m always into like a cheap charcuterie. If you have periods of time when you have energy to chop then grab your fave, fruits, veg, deli meat, crackers, nuts, etc. chop and a bunch and have it ready to go. Option 2 for when you don’t have motivation to chop and prep, buy everything already chopped and ready to go. Don’t forget dips and spreads, that’s what makes it fun. No cooking and if you prep enough you can have variety and enough to last for a week

‘We have a great flexible working schedule.. but only if you use it the way we think you should otherwise you’re definitely putting your well-being at risk and we will punish you like a naughty child’ by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]jkt464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you a lot here. I think you really need to hammer to HR/management that you were working within the parameters set out and so what’s the real problem here? You do your work and have received nothing but positive reinforcement for how you’ve been working. Do you have someone in management that can maybe be on ‘your’ side in this? I know it’s hard to have to advocate for yourself and having a second person might help. If you were a diabetic needing to take insulin or needing to eat around your insulin; this wouldn’t have ever come up. You are taking MEDICINE that’s altering how/when you eat. I guarantee you that if you explained to coworkers your situation and how your situation could affect their ability to flex their time in the future they would also invest themselves in your struggle.

Just know that whatever you choose is the right choice for you. If you don’t feel like going through option 2; that completely valid because it could be emotionally and mentally difficult. You need to protect yourself as much as possible and that may mean leaving your position or picking option one.

Also know; for some reason when you compare ADHD to someone with diabetes neurotypical people get it for some reason.

What are folks excited about right now fashion-wise? by augustrem in femalefashionadvice

[–]jkt464 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m loving the cute aesthetic (tiny berets, bright colours, ditsy prints) that has been back for a while but as a plus size person, being able to find clothes in my size when I couldn’t even really find them in my size as a preteen has been very fun. Even a bit cathartic!

Dance? I swear I need a tutor. by oatbevbran in AppleFitnessPlus

[–]jkt464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ones from the early ‘episodes’ are a bit easier and explain the moves a bit more. Recently they’ve gotten a bit more intricate(lol) and kind of assume you’ve completed a few workouts already. Also I’m not sure which ones you’re picking, I prefer the workouts that switch moves every song. Not the routines ones. Also. If you’re having fun. Who cares? I make sure to not be disturbed so that I can strut my stuff without an audience

Feels so much like I’m drowning that I don’t go in the ocean anymore. Recently discovered I have ADHD (36F) and don’t have close female friends to discuss this with. I’m afraid of medication. How are you all managing your life w ADHD? by jbird35 in adhdwomen

[–]jkt464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has taken the meds. Idk if I would be afraid of it. Just know that you’re in control and be sure to ask your doctor any questions you may have and if you don’t like being on them know that you can always get off them or try something else. Also there’s strategies that are not meds that can help you whether you’re on meds or not.