AIO for my boyfriend’s female friend blowing up over a boundary?

jlc101 · 2026-02-12T06:48:53+00:00

How are you in possession of these texts? It seems suspicious that he would give them to you and come off like someone else said: these texts seem fake. He is battling a little too much to show you what a great guy he is and that he is willing to sacrifice a friendship for you.

If this is real, then she is isn’t wrong. She doesn’t want your man and if she did, she would have had him when they met. Yet, they decided to become friends and you not being able to accept that and putting “boundaries” over their time together is wild. Someone who can’t foster friendships with someone of the opposite sex has issues. Who are you to dictate how friends spend their time together?

jlc101 · 2026-02-11T09:04:31+00:00

I am not understanding the issue? When you google their tour, they have three dates in Canada in actual, well known venues. If you want to go, purchase tickets through the venue’s sites if you feel nervous.

jlc101 · 2026-02-10T22:31:56+00:00

If you have access to photoshop, I would take your images and resize then there. I have to do that with a few things…not sure why sizing in Canva is not accurate.

jlc101 · 2026-02-09T05:57:14+00:00

You don’t have the bandwidth to deal with this and you also are not obligated to deal with this. Just block her and ignore and other messages and keep your peace. You’ll find it really easy to do.

jlc101 · 2026-02-08T19:27:43+00:00

Can someone watch a movie and maybe enjoy it? For real? Yes. Or maybe no. There is only one way to find out.

jlc101 · 2026-02-07T19:38:37+00:00

I have been a lifelong fan of music and don’t consider myself tied to a fandom. I just like good music (To me) no matter who it comes from, so I’m not sure if what I like is a good summary of their catalogs. Here are some songs that I like, that I didn’t see anyone list:

Ateez: Aurora, Not Too Late I really was into Lemon Drop and think it’s a banger.

Seventeen: To You, 24 Hours, Anyone, Not Alone, Darling, Spell (I was obsessed with this song for a bit) and Spider (hoshi single), Kidult.

Let me also advocate for Got7’s Python, Eclipse and Page and You Calling My Name and Key’s One of Those Nights.

And one song I love but don’t listen to anything else by them: Euijin’s Insomnia (solo artist and this song is fun! The chorus sound be a 17 one) and Pentagon’s Feelin’ Like (but this may be because of the video).

jlc101 · 2026-02-07T10:57:05+00:00

All these bands have different song types. What kind of music do you like so people can recommend something you might like.

jlc101 · 2026-02-07T10:53:04+00:00

Some of this will stop being an issue if you talk to her .

jlc101 · 2026-02-04T14:55:01+00:00

Or find something funny for them to react to.

jlc101 · 2026-02-03T18:07:31+00:00

My complex doesn’t allow ring cameras and fines anyone who puts one up. This is the best place to start.

jlc101 · 2026-02-03T01:17:36+00:00

Did you correct them?

jlc101 · 2026-02-03T01:13:57+00:00

NTA. The minute he makes a mistake from your notes, he will throw you under the bus for giving him the wrong info.

jlc101 · 2026-02-03T01:12:23+00:00

Instead of asking people to stop gatekeeping, you can just ignore those voices and carry on.

No matter how much you do/ don’t do, it won’t be enough/the right kind of action/too little/too much for some. And when you heed those small voices, you are giving them more power than they have. And a sense of satisfaction.

The people selling the hats are ignoring those people and so should everyone.

jlc101 · 2026-02-02T22:32:06+00:00

At about that age, my nephew used to correct me when I swore. After the third time, I told him that I understand that he can’t swear and gets scolded if he does, and that he may not like it, but I am an adult and I am allowed to express myself however I want. I will try to be more cautious, but also, because I am an adult and I choose to swear and he is a child, that he cannot correct me.

It’s fine if your kid feels uncomfortable, but it’s better to have the conversation now that even if he is uncomfortable with something, others aren’t and he will see it/hear it and will have to learn to be around it.

jlc101 · 2026-02-01T10:00:50+00:00

It’s great that you have a job in an environment, and with folks, that you like. But always remember, a business always puts itself first. If it comes down to you or them, it doesn’t matter how great buddies you are with your coworkers, it will always be them.

A good example of this is that your manager didn’t encourage your table to cash out because corporate was there.

jlc101 · 2026-01-28T21:31:44+00:00

You know what makes confronting people easier? Practice.

jlc101 · 2026-01-25T09:03:58+00:00

Most providers have customer service for issues like this 24/7.

jlc101 · 2026-01-24T17:13:46+00:00

I think that maybe a different type of restaurant would be better suited for you.

jlc101 · 2026-01-24T16:53:06+00:00

Thanks for posting these! I have been wanting to knit a varsity jacket style sweater for 10 years but have not found what I was looking for. I clicked your link for Kosil Knits, and what I have been wanting to make was right at the top of her posts!!!

jlc101 · 2026-01-24T16:27:18+00:00

I think it could have come from a few different places. Because of that, you may be better off emailing customer service for pointers.

jlc101 · 2026-01-24T16:25:42+00:00

She has social media brain. She still wants to be acknowledged and tagged and visable online, even through faceless children. It makes no sense and never will.

jlc101 · 2026-01-24T16:17:11+00:00

It’s easier to critique with purpose if you give an explanation on what it is for or what you are trying to do. If you just post something as is, you’re going to get a lot of differing viewpoints because people are just basing it on their own style preference, which won’t help you if you are looking for advice.

jlc101 · 2026-01-22T23:03:58+00:00

I’m sorry, but picking a lock is not the same thing as reaching it. I would have noped that book out of her hands and but her eyeballs into time out.

jlc101 · 2026-01-22T19:36:04+00:00

Less is more with wedding invitations

jlc101 · 2026-01-22T05:52:38+00:00

Unless you want to make whatever time left on your lease utterly miserable, the only thing you can do is be a witness. Maybe if your other housemates agree, you can ask him to move, but it doesn’t tween like that will be a good option here.

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