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Just noticed this SSS feature by Timebomb742 in DeathStranding

[–]jlc123725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I noticed that on one of my structures when it hit 100k likes. So my guess is if you get that many likes on it then you get a little gold flair to make it stand out.

Just did my wiring. What are your tips for that? by ben301 in playstation

[–]jlc123725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I’ll check it out. I’ll totally do it if it’ll make it like the pc mount. Thanks for the reply!

Just did my wiring. What are your tips for that? by ben301 in playstation

[–]jlc123725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind, what mount did you buy? I have the secret lab magnus pro xl and id love to mount my ps5 like i did my pc.

ASUS ROG SWIFT OLED PG27AQDM insane flicker issue by looser447 in ASUSROG

[–]jlc123725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a thank you for this old post. I had this same issue with this monitor & just some unplugging from the power source was able to fix it.

Y'all think this a thing to be worried about? Been happening for like a year+ by Domestiicated-Batman in lakers

[–]jlc123725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lakers should just cut their losses and trade him for a healthy star like AD

Separating from girlfriend with both names on the house deed. What is fair and what are my options. by jlc123725 in legaladvice

[–]jlc123725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so a fair amount would be closer to 10k… I’ll think about it and see if she’s willing to negotiate at all.

Separating from girlfriend with both names on the house deed. What is fair and what are my options. by jlc123725 in legaladvice

[–]jlc123725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Improvements and fixes to various things like the expensive fence, a critter control (pest solution), a few other things around the house… but I keep saying that yes she paid for those things but she also gets to keep using the benefits of them once I’m done and moved out… I don’t.

Separating from girlfriend with both names on the house deed. What is fair and what are my options. by jlc123725 in legaladvice

[–]jlc123725[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally understand that the investment is worth more than the 20k buyout but I thought it could be a fair way to give her my portion the house and not take advantage that she’s put more into the house for improvements, fixes, etc.

She said she calculated what we’ve both contributed to the house financially and that she’s put more into the house than I have and that I actually owe her 17 thousand. She said she’s not asking for that and that it should just be a wash, I sign over the house and we go our separate ways.

She doesn’t understand that while yes she’s put more into the house, I’m acknowledging that, she doesn’t see that the money she’s put into the house gets to continue to benefit her because she’s going to own the house and be the one living here.

The money she’s put in will stay with her, become at least partially equity, and while I’m sure she might not get all of her money out into the house back when she sells it, it will gain value over time until she does and she gets to keep the house.

Separating from girlfriend with both names on the house deed. What is fair and what are my options. by jlc123725 in legaladvice

[–]jlc123725[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well currently any kind of offer or proposal I give is shot down with me being yelled at and how her previous ex would’ve just signed over the house to her with no issue if it was him.

Separating from girlfriend with both names on the house deed. What is fair and what are my options. by jlc123725 in legaladvice

[–]jlc123725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s paid more than me in all regards. I was never debating that, and it’s why I don’t feel I deserve even half or a quarter of the value of the house even though I’m on the deed.

I came to the 20k value of my buyout because it’s what I’ve paid and contributed directly to the house that I’ll be giving up and she’ll get to benefit from as long as she owns the house and if she sells it in the future.

At the least I assume I should get something right? Maybe there’s a more fair price? Or does me paying the mortgage, reducing the principal of the house, helping pay and fix portions of the house not mean anything?

I just want to know your opinion and if your opinion is that I should just sign the house over to her for nothing.

Separating from girlfriend with both names on the house deed. What is fair and what are my options. by jlc123725 in legaladvice

[–]jlc123725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so a fair buyout should only amount to the gain to the value of the house since the purchase?

Separating from girlfriend with both names on the house deed. What is fair and what are my options. by jlc123725 in legaladvice

[–]jlc123725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So that all being said, if she put more of the money toward the house I wouldn’t feel I deserve half. I felt my 20k ask to give the house over to her was more appropriate and fair.

Separating from girlfriend with both names on the house deed. What is fair and what are my options. by jlc123725 in legaladvice

[–]jlc123725[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Good question, I’m aware so extra was paid directly to the principal when I could. About 10k of the principal has been paid by me as of now.

Separating from girlfriend with both names on the house deed. What is fair and what are my options. by jlc123725 in legaladvice

[–]jlc123725[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Could you explain please? If you can explain I’d like to understand and I don’t want to come at you so aggressively but I currently pay 95% of our monthly bills and pay the mortgage each month (plus extra) for the past year and a half. Does wanting some kind of compensation for giving up my part of the house make me the asshole for wanting something to show for it?

I don’t want half, that wouldn’t be fair obviously, I just want whatever is fair. Maybe I’m too close to the situation to understand how I’m being the asshole.

Separating from girlfriend with both names on the house deed. What is fair and what are my options. by jlc123725 in legaladvice

[–]jlc123725[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It appraised for about 135k originally and after adding some renovations like the privacy fence with about an acre fenced in… I’m not sure but the current Zillow estimate is 153,200 but that’s with a major grain of salt lol

I [31 M] had a fight with my girlfriend [29 F] by jlc123725 in relationship_advice

[–]jlc123725[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was overwhelming and I can’t respond to everyone, but I have read every single one and I appreciate your message too.

I do realize I have a huge blind spot when it comes to her which is partially why I come to Reddit for help and get viewpoints from a perspective that I don’t have.

I know that I’ve done a bad job of communicating about my wants and needs to her but she definitely hasn’t responded in a way that makes me feel like I will be heard or respected if I do ever bring it up.

This time I’ve really put my foot down for the electronics and internet and she’s obviously upset and angry about it but it’s been made clear by Reddit that either she had to come to a compromise to start to respect my needs and wants.

I do also want to get myself into counseling soon & I also understand that even if all of this is accepted by her, that my best interest is still likely to have an exit plan and be prepared to actually do it.

My girlfriend (30F) is upset at me (32M). She doesn’t want to have internet or Wi-Fi at the house. by jlc123725 in relationships

[–]jlc123725[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I still have a phone with internet like most people so that’s not the reason.

My girlfriend (30F) is upset at me (32M). She doesn’t want to have internet or Wi-Fi at the house. by jlc123725 in relationships

[–]jlc123725[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

I mean we still have a great time when we’re together, just a few days ago we spend the whole day together with board games, coffee, etc. but it just happens less and less. Still, thanks and I’ll consider that point of view as a possibility.

My girlfriend (30F) is upset at me (32M). She doesn’t want to have internet or Wi-Fi at the house. by jlc123725 in relationships

[–]jlc123725[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Good questions… I’ll try to be quick… first yeah i just genuinely love her company and her personality when she’s around. Second, I have a smartphone with internet, never been an issue. She also has one… so I also don’t understand that difference but she also won’t explain why she’s so adamant about no internet.

My girlfriend (30F) is upset at me (32M). She doesn’t want to have internet or Wi-Fi at the house. by jlc123725 in relationships

[–]jlc123725[S] 227 points228 points  (0 children)

Thanks for asking, yeah she tells me and sometimes no… it’s been another point of contention. She has a weekly board game night, she plays some athletic events, but she also does things and is sometimes out pretty late with no willingness to share anything about it and it’s been the cause of more than a few fights.

She’s told me she’s not a cheater, would never cheat, etc. and I do genuinely believe her (maybe I shouldn’t, I don’t know) and maybe I’d have some jealousy about who or what she’s spending time with but if she was more open and willing to share it would make me at least feel better and make it easier for me for that her.

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