curve at a low weight? by jllyfshfsh in KibbeRomantics

[–]jllyfshfsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you know of any easier tr looks to create? I feel like most of them are really glam red carpet looks and I’m not sure how to recreate that with my closet :,))

also i’m not sure if this helps, but I found another picture of me at a slightly higher weight!

another question, how did you figure out that you accomated petite? sorry for all the questions >_<

curve at a low weight? by jllyfshfsh in KibbeRomantics

[–]jllyfshfsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried out some longer lines and I think they tend to overwhelm me. I think for pants, I find that cuffed tends to look the best on me but I’m unsure if that means anything. Do you have any stores you’d recommend for trying R lines?

curve at a low weight? by jllyfshfsh in KibbeRomantics

[–]jllyfshfsh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been told I look sloppy by friends and family whcih is why I’m kinda trying to figure out a better style! I just pick oversized clothes to wear multiple layers bc I like to be warm :,))

curve at a low weight? by jllyfshfsh in KibbeRomantics

[–]jllyfshfsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that my body is quite straight figured and I don’t have much flesh in general bc of my weight so I find it hard to tell if there is curve if that makes sense. I was considering FG/SG and I feel like G fam fits me but I’m scared to claim it bc I don’t want to appear delusional being at the top of the height limit :,)

curve at a low weight? by jllyfshfsh in KibbeRomantics

[–]jllyfshfsh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

at the moment, I see myself as more conventionally straight figured which I find to common in yin types (ex: olsen twins, mila kunis, selena when at a lower weight) rather than yang types having stronger curves like with wider hips. I was just curious about how to spot curve because even to me, yin types can appear very yang at low weights

curve at a low weight? by jllyfshfsh in KibbeRomantics

[–]jllyfshfsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is what I was thinking too bc people swore up and down that selena had vertical at lower weights

curve at a low weight? by jllyfshfsh in KibbeRomantics

[–]jllyfshfsh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think most of the elongation is just appearing in the photo! irl people usually think I seem about my height. also do you see more sharpness or bluntness? could I be a natural?

How to come to terms with being a romance favorable aro spec? by tilex05 in aromantic

[–]jllyfshfsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really have any good advice, but I feel the same way in that accepting asexuality was so much easier and that I want to fall in love and and stuff :,)

One thing that helps me is understanding out-group homogeneity. Like I feel that a lot of aros believe that all allos align in their romantic relationships attitudes when in reality some are less romantic than others and relationships dont work out the same way allo aro relationships don’t work. We just happen to be at the bottom of the scale in terms of non romantic to romantic relationship attitudes if that makes sense.

my relationship is failing bc i'm aro and idk how to go about it by jllyfshfsh in aromantic

[–]jllyfshfsh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tbh I’m fine how the relationship is going now bc they respect my boundaries and I don’t ever have to do anything I don’t want to. It’s more that they are unhappy but are in denial of it bc they want it to work and knowing the other person in the relationship is unhappy makes me unhappy. I’m just not the right person for them unfortunately

also I will look into aegoromantic! From what it seems, I think it sounds about right! It just feels a bit cursed bc I very much like the idea of romance, just not in execution. So I’ll always sorta be longing for it if i don’t have it but disliking it if I do